Love Life With Matthew Hussey Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Rewind
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Nov 14, 2025 Ever feel stuck with partners who can’t commit? Dive into the signs of avoidant attachment and learn to spot the red flags early. Discover why the phrase 'You’re too good for me' might actually mean trouble. Understanding your self-worth can help you break free from these cycles. Matthew emphasizes that saying no to the wrong people opens the door to real connections. Shift your perspective on attraction and redefine your dating landscape for lasting relationships!
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Repeated Pattern With Avoidant Partners
- A woman in Matthew Hussey's coaching group reported repeatedly dating avoidant partners who broke her heart.
- She described common lines like "you're too good for me" and men enjoying the relationship but refusing to define it.
Avoidant Rationalizations Mask Intent
- Avoidant rationalizations often recast the avoidant as sympathetic rather than accountable.
- Avoidants may enjoy the benefits but avoid any conversation that implies commitment or future planning.
Get Clear On Relationship Goals Early
- Clarify early whether someone shares your vision for a committed relationship.
- Use a clear internal compass to mark green lights and walk away from misaligned goals.