Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
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Dec 19, 2025 • 25min
Why Trying TOO HARD Is Actually Pushing Him AWAY | Rewind
Ever find that showing interest makes someone pull away? This discussion dives into why that happens, including self-loathing and a quest for new goals. Discover how overvaluing someone can mimic celebrity worship, leading to unhealthy attachments. The hosts emphasize striking a balance with your standards and maintaining boundaries, ensuring attraction doesn't overshadow your priorities. Excessive giving can feel off-putting and trigger withdrawal, so learn how to protect yourself emotionally as you navigate modern relationships.
Dec 17, 2025 • 1h 3min
How to Survive Your Long Distance Relationship
Delve into the challenges of long-distance relationships as the hosts explore how distance can conceal real incompatibilities. They share personal reflections on parenthood and the new vulnerabilities it brings. Listen to insights on how online dating expands horizons yet complicates connections. The allure of romantic obstacles is discussed, along with practical tips for maintaining intimacy through voice notes and surprise visits. Plus, hear valuable advice on spotting red flags and prioritizing small gestures in love.
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Dec 15, 2025 • 10min
Get Over “The One That Got Away” and Heal | Matt Monday
Matthew Hussey and Jay Shetty dive into the messy reality of heartbreak. They highlight that healing is personal and often non-linear, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion. The duo discusses how painful experiences can unknowingly empower us and reframe heartbreak into personal growth. They challenge the myth of 'right person, wrong time' and suggest that nostalgia is merely longing for an idealized version of an ex. Ultimately, they encourage acceptance of one's reality to pave the way for true healing.
Dec 12, 2025 • 13min
3 Reasons Why He Won’t Commit (And What You Can Do) | Rewind
Ever wonder why some men hesitate to commit? Discover the top three fears that hold them back, including decision paralysis and the fear of losing their independence. Learn how to lower relationship stakes by inviting gradual closeness and offering a trial commitment. Unpack the importance of maintaining individuality while nurturing trust through consistent behavior. It's a journey of understanding that could lead to a more profound connection!
Dec 10, 2025 • 43min
If the Breakup Hurts Too Much, Listen to This
Breakups can feel like earthquakes, leaving you questioning everything. The dialogue dives into the shocking aftermath of sudden endings and the pain of feeling blindsided. Listeners learn the importance of allowing grief to unfold without rushing into conclusions. Support systems are crucial—finding those who truly understand can make all the difference. Practical advice ranges from avoiding impulsive decisions to embracing the need for repeated truths in healing. The journey to recovery is grounded in moving slowly and intentionally.
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Dec 8, 2025 • 17min
4 Levels to Love: Which One Are You Chasing? (w/ Lisa Bilyeu) | Matt Monday
Explore the intriguing four levels of love and attraction that can clarify your dating dilemmas. Discover why admiration alone isn't enough and how mutual attraction can create deceptive hopes. Learn the danger of equating immediate sparks with long-term compatibility. Unpack the significance of commitment and how shared values fortify relationships. Plus, gain insight on grieving connections that weren't meant to last and bridge the investment gap to find lasting love.
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Dec 5, 2025 • 16min
What to Do When Someone Breaks Your Trust | Rewind
Betrayal can cast a long shadow on trust in future relationships. Explore the importance of setting personal standards for trust while navigating discomfort. Discover how compassion can trump jealousy and protect the beauty of your connections. Learn about the danger of policing your partner and the importance of logical boundaries. Finally, embrace the idea of loving deeply, ensuring you grow richer from each experience, regardless of the outcome.
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Dec 3, 2025 • 1h 8min
Why Your Relationship Needs Better Arguments
Explore the idea that early arguments in a relationship can be opportunities for growth rather than red flags. Learn how attachment styles influence our reactions during conflicts. Discover techniques for productive conversations and the importance of vulnerability in resolving disagreements. The hosts discuss boundaries to set during arguments to protect the relationship and the significance of repairing after conflicts. They even tackle listener questions about dating fears. This discussion offers valuable insights for anyone navigating love.
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Dec 1, 2025 • 11min
How to Stop Being Disrespected, Ignored, or Violated in Dating | Matt Monday
Navigating dating can feel like a rollercoaster of ghosting and mixed signals. Instead of obsessing over attraction, focus on cultivating self-respect and setting high standards. Matthew emphasizes recognizing red flags in relationships and contrasts fleeting romance with the importance of reliability. He discusses how assertive communication can spark attraction and encourages listeners to uphold their standards consistently. With warmth and humor, he shares tools to help navigate the ups and downs of modern dating.
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Nov 28, 2025 • 22min
What to Do When He Won’t Commit | Rewind
In this enlightening discussion, caller Sabina shares her struggles with a man embroiled in a divorce. Matthew Hussey offers insightful advice on distinguishing reasons from reality, helping her navigate the complexities of commitment. He emphasizes the importance of protecting her time and heart and provides a calm script for communicating her decision. Plus, they delve into the risks of dating someone mid-divorce and the necessity of defining her choices rather than waiting on his timeline. This conversation is all about reclaiming confidence in love!
