Love Life With Matthew Hussey Why Trying TOO HARD Is Actually Pushing Him AWAY | Rewind
Dec 19, 2025
Ever find that showing interest makes someone pull away? This discussion dives into why that happens, including self-loathing and a quest for new goals. Discover how overvaluing someone can mimic celebrity worship, leading to unhealthy attachments. The hosts emphasize striking a balance with your standards and maintaining boundaries, ensuring attraction doesn't overshadow your priorities. Excessive giving can feel off-putting and trigger withdrawal, so learn how to protect yourself emotionally as you navigate modern relationships.
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Interest Reveals Readiness
- Some people back away when you show interest because they never wanted a real relationship.
- Matthew Hussey says revealing intentions early exposes who isn't ready and that's a positive outcome.
Acceptance Can Be A Turn-Off
- Emotional unhealth can make acceptance feel like a turn-off for some people.
- Matthew explains people either devalue being liked or chase attainment, so acceptance ends the thrill.
Check Why You Feel So Invested
- Do reflect on how you show interest and whether it fills your own voids.
- Stephen Hussey warns that showing interest as self-fixation makes others feel like targets of your neediness.