Love Life With Matthew Hussey 4 Levels to Love: Which One Are You Chasing? (w/ Lisa Bilyeu) | Matt Monday
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Dec 8, 2025 Explore the intriguing four levels of love and attraction that can clarify your dating dilemmas. Discover why admiration alone isn't enough and how mutual attraction can create deceptive hopes. Learn the danger of equating immediate sparks with long-term compatibility. Unpack the significance of commitment and how shared values fortify relationships. Plus, gain insight on grieving connections that weren't meant to last and bridge the investment gap to find lasting love.
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Admiration Is Just A Prerequisite
- Admiration is only a prerequisite feeling and not itself important for a relationship.
- You can admire someone from afar without them being meaningful to your life.
Mutual Attraction Can Mislead You
- Mutual attraction is necessary but often overrated in importance.
- Hope attached to mutual attraction can keep you stuck in unfulfilling situations.
Three Months Of Fireworks Isn't Character
- A client believed a three-month fling was "her person" because of intense feelings.
- Matthew Hussey explained three months shows impact, not character, and can't prove long-term fit.