Love Life With Matthew Hussey

What to Do When He Won’t Commit | Rewind

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Nov 28, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, caller Sabina shares her struggles with a man embroiled in a divorce. Matthew Hussey offers insightful advice on distinguishing reasons from reality, helping her navigate the complexities of commitment. He emphasizes the importance of protecting her time and heart and provides a calm script for communicating her decision. Plus, they delve into the risks of dating someone mid-divorce and the necessity of defining her choices rather than waiting on his timeline. This conversation is all about reclaiming confidence in love!
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INSIGHT

Reasons vs. Reality

  • Reasons do not change your reality when they prevent someone from saying yes to you.
  • Protect your time and energy regardless of how legitimate their excuses sound.
ADVICE

State Your Boundaries Clearly

  • Say you understand their situation but state your reality and move forward with your life.
  • Offer to talk if they genuinely change their decision, but do not wait around indefinitely.
INSIGHT

Make Being Available Costly

  • People rarely feel real consequences while you keep returning to them.
  • Move forward so the other person must decide now or risk losing you.
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