Love Life With Matthew Hussey (Rewind): "Bad Texter" or Just Not That Into You?
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Jun 27, 2025 Texting can be thrilling in dating, but what happens when the messages start to dwindle? This discussion dives into the confusion that arises from inconsistent texting and how it impacts emotional closeness. It explores the common mistake of overanalyzing a partner's phone habits, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing genuine connection over communication frequency. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences and understand the nuances of early dating dynamics.
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Communication Builds Over Time
- Early in dating, you can't demand someone text you more since you're not their priority yet.
- Over days and weeks, communication should build with a sense of progress and momentum.
Inconsistency vs Scarcity in Texting
- Inconsistency in communication signals a deeper issue like lack of serious interest or juggling multiple partners.
- Scarcity means less communication but still consistent; inconsistency often means emotional unavailability.
Closeness Over Texting Medium
- The real issue isn’t the medium of communication but the feeling of closeness and connection you get.
- Feeling connected comes from knowing about each other’s days and emotions, not just messages on a screen.