Love Life With Matthew Hussey How to Make Them Call and Text You Every Day | Rewind
Oct 3, 2025
Ever wondered why someone goes silent after a few great dates? Discover how to regain control over communication by modeling the dynamic you desire. Learn how initiating contact can shift responses and foster reciprocity. Explore the difference between modeling and mirroring in dating, and find practical strategies for effective outreach. Balancing pride and proactivity is key, as is maintaining standards to eliminate feelings of desperation. Ultimately, be your best self and recognize when someone isn’t the right fit for you.
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Early Dating Is Open-Ended
- Early dating rarely provides closure and is inherently open-ended.
- We often overestimate how much others must explain and underestimate our own influence on the dynamic.
You Create The Dating Culture
- We react to the culture of a situation instead of creating it.
- Modeling behavior changes the dynamic because reciprocity makes people respond to actions first.
Model The Communication You Want
- Model the communication you want instead of only mirroring theirs.
- Be proactive by reaching out in the tone and frequency you'd like to receive.
