Love Life With Matthew Hussey

The Subtle Signs They’ll Commit Forever | Matt Monday

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Sep 22, 2025
Navigating modern dating can feel overwhelming, especially with curated images blurring reality. Idealizing partners based on their social media presence distracts from recognizing true commitment signals. Understanding shared values and long-term goals is crucial in assessing potential partners. Matthew shares key indicators that suggest someone is truly capable of committing for the long haul. Break free from illusions and focus on what truly matters in love!
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Curated Images Create False Idols

  • Social media turns everyone into a curated PR campaign, making people easier to idolize and idealize.
  • That curated image can hide whether someone truly demonstrates partner-worthy behavior.
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Idolizing Vs. Idealizing Explained

  • We confuse admiration (idolizing) with projecting qualities they may not actually possess (idealizing).
  • People fill in unseen gaps with what they want to believe, making the image more powerful than reality.
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Public Displays May Signal Wanting Attention

  • Public displays (like polished parenting clips) often signal a value for attention more than the underlying role.
  • What someone publicly showcases may reflect desire for visibility, not their true guiding priorities.
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