Love Life With Matthew Hussey 314: They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!
Sep 17, 2025
Explore the exhausting cycle of overgiving in relationships. Discover how the need for perfection can sabotage true connection and attraction. Learn why it’s crucial to create space for mutual investment in love. The hosts provide practical strategies to break free from people-pleasing and reclaim your confidence. A listener Q&A addresses heartbreak and patterns, adding depth to the discussion about trusting yourself. Don't miss insights on how being authentic is the key to healthier relationships!
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Why Overgiving Starts
- Overgiving often comes from believing who you are is insufficient and needing to bridge a gap with actions.
- That constant effort creates anxiety and robs you of joy in the relationship.
Matthew's Overgiving Story
- Matthew recounts being consumed by planning texts and thoughtful gestures during a relationship.
- He recalls feeling catastrophic over small missteps and unable to relax.
Too Thoughtful Too Soon
- Excessive thoughtfulness early in dating can smell like insecurity rather than romance.
- Gestures that are beautiful later can kill attraction when they arrive too soon.