Nicole LePera, a holistic psychologist and best-selling author, shares her insights on breaking free from trauma bonds and toxic relationship habits. She discusses how early experiences shape adult relationships and the importance of self-awareness in recognizing unhealthy patterns. LePera emphasizes the role of emotional regulation and setting boundaries, offering practical strategies for overcoming emotional triggers. Listeners are encouraged to explore their subconscious beliefs and foster genuine connections by embracing vulnerability and authenticity.

This Masterclass revolves around the topic of mental health and regulating your emotions. Three experts share their tips and advice for how you can improve the overall quality of your life by beginning to take control of your emotions and make the changes you desire. In this episode,Sadhguru, a Yogi, mystic, and visionary, explains why it's okay to feel empty-minded and how to take the power back over your emotions. Jordan Peterson, clinical psychologist, author, and professor at the University of Toronto, teaches the true impact your memory can make in your life and how feeling resentful can actually be useful.Nicole LePera, author & clinical psychologist, shares what is standing in your way of making the change you desire as well as ways you can regulate your nervous system.For more, go to lewishowes.com/1332Full EpisodesSadhguru: https://link.chtbl.com/1117-podJordan Peterson: https://link.chtbl.com/1092-podNicole LePera: https://link.chtbl.com/844-pod Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

In this enlightening discussion, guests Dr. Nicole LePera, a holistic psychologist specializing in trauma healing, Martha Beck, a life coach advocating for self-compassion, Susan Cain, author on introversion and bittersweet experiences, and Corey Allen, a meditation teacher, delve deep into gratitude. They explore its transformative powers, emphasizing presence and mindfulness. Practical techniques for fostering genuine appreciation are shared, alongside the vital balance between gratitude and life's challenges, creating a rich tapestry of emotional well-being and profound connection.

Today’s episode revolves around psychology. Three experts on behavioral psychology share their perspectives and advice for how to combat overwhelming levels of stress in your life and ways to increase your level of self-love.In this episode, Dr. Nicole LePera, holistic psychologist & best-selling author, teaches us how to harness the most powerful regulator of stress and approachable ways we can reparent ourselves. Kati Morton, clinical psychologist, shares her tips to defeat loneliness and the things you need to be doing to build deeper relationships. Kelly McGonigal, health psychologist & best-selling author, explains the science behind physical activiity’s positive effects on your mental health and why you should stop thinking that there is good and bad stress. For more, go to lewishowes.com/1320Full episodes:Dr. Nicole LePera - https://link.chtbl.com/1047-podKati Morton - https://link.chtbl.com/1047-podKelly McGonigal - https://link.chtbl.com/1047-pod Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Dr. Nicole LePera chats with Jay Shetty to talk about trauma as the root of all mental health problems. They discuss how one can utilize their own environment to self heal, why people are stuck with the same adaptive mechanism that doesn’t help them change, and taking many small steps on our way to complete healing.Dr. Nicole, a trained clinical psychologist, created the SelfHealers Circle to allow people to go on their own journey and create who they want to become. Dr. Nicole lives in Los Angeles, California and loves anywhere that involves the stillness (and quiet) of nature. She currently hosts the SelfHealers Soundboard podcast with Jenna Weakland focused on recognizing patterns, healing from the past, and creating oneself.Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to get on the list for early access + receive a free 5-Minute Wellness Journal made to help guide you through your wellness journey and daily routineWhat We Discuss with Dr. LePera:00:00 Intro02:23 The concept of the work: getting stuck04:33 Utilize the environment around us with many daily small steps07:23 What is epigenetics?09:46 Empowering yourself to be your own healer14:04 When you entertain the idea that maybe you are broken18:07 Overwhelming change could send us back into that same adaptive mechanism22:26 We work with the pattern we’re stuck in26:52 When we’re conscious, we can hear our body31:44 The uniqueness that makes each of us different35:31 The nature of our thoughts are reiterative and amplified in some ways41:35 How to nurture self-awareness and self honesty without leading to self-destruction?46:19 How do we stop letting other people's opinions define our choice?50:16 Creating empathy to people we can’t relate to52:47 Honoring the small choices you’re making and the moment you’re living in54:25 Dr. LePera on Fast FiveLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Grab a copy of your own Think Like A Monk book. Get the audiobook here: https://amzn.to/2THCYUuEpisode Resources:The Holistic PsychologyDr. Nicole LePera | InstagramDr. Nicole LePera | LinkedInDr. Nicole LePera | FacebookDr. Nicole LePera | YouTubeSelfHealers SoundboardAchieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we’ve put together a powerful mashup all about the importance of breath work! We’ve had multiple guests on the show diving deep into the conversation about the power of breathing and how it affects your body to reduce stress, decrease inflammation, and how you can learn to regulate your body’s response to anxiety with a few simple techniques. So stick around to hear from James Nestor, Andrew Huberman, Wendy Suzuki, Nicole LePera, and Wim Hof!For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1176James Nestor full episode: www.lewishowes.com/1060Andrew Huberman full episode: www.lewishowes.com/1072Wendy Suzuki full episode: www.lewishowes.com/1160Nicole LePera full episode: www.lewishowes.com/1083Wim Hof full episode: www.lewishowes.com/799  Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

As a clinical psychologist in private practice, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients— and for self— she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual health that equips people with the tools necessary to heal themselves. She is the creator of the #SelfHealers movement where people from around the world are joining together in a community to take healing into their own hands. Her first book, How to Do the Work, has resonated within the community and has released her new How to Meet Your Self: The Workbook for Self-Discovery.In this episode you will learn,Why we are prone to self-sabotage.How healing mental wounds affects the nervous system.Why so many of us believe we aren’t lovable.What happens when we abandon ourselves and our boundaries.For more, go to lewishowes.com/1358Check out Dr. LePera’s past episodes here!How to Heal Your Painful Memories, Thoughts & Beliefs to Create a Greater Future: https://link.chtbl.com/1083-podRelationships, Boundaries, and Childhood Trauma: https://link.chtbl.com/932-podBecome a Self-Healer and Break Free of Emotional Cycles: https://link.chtbl.com/844-pod Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

In episode 4 of 14 of HOW TO DO THE WORK Masterclass, Dr. Nicole LePera and Co-Host Jenna Weakland introduce Dr. Nicole’s #1 New York Times Best Seller HOW TO DO THE WORK: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self. This is a chapter-by-chapter class in which we dive deep into each topic. In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna speak about the expanded definition of trauma. Together, they answer questions about relationships, safety, and emotionally unavailable caregivers.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

“Consciousness is where we are granted choice.”QUESTIONSHow are you growing faster than other therapist brands? (1:28)How do we change a feeling of powerlessness? (7:25)What’s the greatest trauma people face? (17:24)What’s the level a child or the parent traumatizes the other? (19:23)How do we come to a place of worthiness? (29:00)What is the best practice on observing self thoughts? (37:13)What’s your biggest trigger? (39:13)How do we forgive our parents, even if they were doing the best they can? (43:20)How do we say no without apologizing? (49:30)How do you speak to a child that has a chaotic reality and has not observed their own thoughts? (1:01:30)What’s your biggest fear as a therapist? (1:07:32)YOU WILL LEARNThe issue with always thinking about what to do next (5:30)How to develop a consistency in practice in consciousness of action (9:45)The top tools for your healing journey (16:25)Why meditation is key to tuning in to our internal world (24:30)What to do when we get stuck in our familiarized comfort zone (27:50)How the practice of self observation removes focus without judgment (29:30)Why we must change our expectations (41:21)Why we find a way to keep connections with other humans (51:32)Great ways to say no without apologizing or explaining yourself (56:25)The importance of going inward and connecting with ourselves everyday (1:07:10)LINKS MENTIONEDThe Body Keeps the ScoreVirtual Self Healer Circle MembershipBrain on Fire by Susannah CahalanIf you enjoyed this episode, show notes and more at http://www.lewishowes.com/932 and follow at instagram.com/lewishowes Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

Experts like Janelle and Dr. Nicole LePera discuss nervous system regulation, fight-flight-freeze responses, and strategies for emotional well-being. The chapter covers grounding techniques, trauma responses, and self-awareness to nurture the nervous system for positive life changes.