Whether it’s grades and test scores, cushy jobs or big salaries, our ideas of “success” tend to be incredibly narrow and often start incredibly early. Julie Lythcott-Haims is a New York Times bestselling author and former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford, and she is dedicated to helping people reconsider what really makes a happy, “successful” adult. Julie shares wisdom for parents and anyone who has been parented on why it’s crucial to question societal expectations, how to find your own path and why empathy towards yourself and others are the true key to loving who you’ll grow up to be. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Julie Lythcott-Haims, a New York Times bestselling author and former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford, shares powerful insights on redefining adulthood. She discusses the dangers of narrow definitions of success that can pressure young people from an early age. Emphasizing the importance of empathy, she advocates for parenting that nurtures individuality and personal growth. The conversation highlights the need for open communication between parents and children and encourages pursuing passions over societal expectations for a truly fulfilling life.

Duke Professor, McKinsey Senior Partner, and City Council Member discuss changing self-talk and work habits. Topics include self-compassion, imposter syndrome, embracing imperfections, navigating mental health challenges, and compassionate leadership. Guests share personal stories and highlight the importance of self-love and vulnerability in leadership roles.

“Communication is such a delicate dance and kids need to emerge from childhood having practiced,” says Julie Lythcott-Haims, former associate vice provost of undergraduate education Stanford University. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, lecturer and podcast host Matt Abrahams sits down with Lythcott-Haims to discuss her new book, Your Turn: How to be an Adult, and ideas on how to communicate with young people so they feel empowered to take on the various (and often intimidating) duties of adulthood. “Responsibility isn’t a bad thing,” she says. “Responsibility is actually an amazing thing. And I think we have to do a better job of narrating that truth.”Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn,  Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn ********Become a Faster Smarter Supporter by joining TFTS Premium.Take advantage of our Sponsor offer from Superhuman

Julie Lythcott-Haims discusses modern interpretations of adulthood, emphasizing authenticity and self-discovery. The podcast covers navigating parenting with vulnerability, exploring college options beyond brand names, and redefining 'adulting' through personal growth. It also delves into creating deeper connections through meaningful conversations and embracing resilience in the nonlinear journey of adulthood.