The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos Happier Parents, Happier Kids Pt 2: Letting Children Try and Fail
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Nov 7, 2022 Join former Stanford dean Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of *How to Raise an Adult*, as she discusses the pitfalls of overparenting. She emphasizes the importance of letting kids face challenges and learn from failure, which cultivates resilience and independence. Julie shares insights on how excessive parental involvement can stifle children's growth, and she highlights the need for a balance between guidance and autonomy. Tune in for strategies on supporting children's unique identities while fostering their ability to navigate life's hurdles.
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Julie's Overparenting Realization
- Julie Lythcott-Haims, a former Stanford dean, realized she was overparenting her own children.
- She was cutting her son's chicken at dinner and realized she was doing the same things she criticized other parents for.
Overparenting and Autonomy
- Overparenting prevents children from developing autonomy.
- Children need a sense of agency over their own lives.
Dismissing Artistic Talent
- Julie dismissed her daughter Avery's artistic talent in preschool.
- She prioritized academic achievements over art, believing it wouldn't help Avery get into college.