Thinkers50: Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy, Start Being Your Best Friend
May 15, 2024
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Duke Professor, McKinsey Senior Partner, and City Council Member discuss changing self-talk and work habits. Topics include self-compassion, imposter syndrome, embracing imperfections, navigating mental health challenges, and compassionate leadership. Guests share personal stories and highlight the importance of self-love and vulnerability in leadership roles.
Embrace gratitude and acknowledge unique contributions for self-acceptance.
Encourage vulnerability and open dialogues to prioritize mental well-being in the workplace.
Deep dives
Recognizing the Value Within
Recognizing our own value and worth is crucial in combatting feelings of inadequacy. Through personal stories and introspection, individuals can uncover their unique contributions and strengths, even those that may seem ordinary. Embracing gratitude and acknowledging one's extraordinary qualities can pave the way for self-acceptance and compassion towards oneself and others.
Creating Supportive Work Environments
Leaders and managers play a pivotal role in fostering work environments that prioritize mental well-being over perfectionism. By encouraging open dialogues and vulnerability, professionals can create spaces where employees feel safe to share their struggles. Normalizing discussions around anxiety and imperfections can strengthen personal and professional relationships, ultimately enhancing team dynamics and individual growth.
Embracing Vulnerability and Emotional Authenticity
Embracing vulnerability and allowing oneself to show raw emotions, such as crying, can lead to deeper connections and understanding among peers, colleagues, and family members. Sharing personal struggles and stories can break down barriers, normalize mental health discussions, and create a supportive atmosphere where individuals feel seen, heard, and accepted.
Self-Worth and Compassion
Understanding the long-term effects of not addressing anxiety and perfectionism is essential for personal growth and overall well-being. Striving for perfection often leads to self-doubt, eroded self-esteem, and challenges in personal relationships. By acknowledging one's struggles, seeking help, and communicating openly about mental health, individuals can cultivate self-worth, foster resilience, and build healthier connections with others.
As part of a month long series with Thinkers50 and The Silicon Guild, in this episode host Morra Aarons-Mele explores constructive ways we can improve our relationship with ourselves, instead of always being our harshest critic. She’s joined by Duke Professor Sanyin Siang, Lenny Mendoca, Senior Partner Emeritus at McKinsey, and Palo Alto City Council Member Julie Lythcott-Haims to talk about ways to change your self talk and your work.