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Is It Possible To Improve Your Personality? The Science Says Yes. Here’s How To Do It. | Olga Khazan

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Jul 23, 2025
Olga Khazan, a staff writer for The Atlantic and author of 'Me, But Better', dives into the enticing possibilities of personality change. She explores the definition of personality and breaks down the big five traits, including conscientiousness and neuroticism. Listeners will discover practical strategies to combat procrastination and enhance social connections. Olga even discusses the intriguing role of psychedelics in personality development. Tune in for insights on small, daily practices that can lead to meaningful personal growth!
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ANECDOTE

Olga's Neuroticism Awakening

  • Olga Khazan realized despite having an interesting job, a partner, and stable living conditions, she was persistently unhappy.
  • This dissatisfaction was linked to her personality trait of neuroticism, impacting her daily mood and wellbeing.
INSIGHT

Personality as a Tool

  • Personality is the natural thoughts, feelings, and behaviors helping us to get what we want.
  • Genetics partly shape personality, but environment and volitional change allow meaningful personality shifts.
ADVICE

Socialize in Introvert-Friendly Ways

  • Introverts need social connection too, but often less and in gentler ways like listening more than talking.
  • Attending social events where you mainly listen can count as extroversion without draining an introvert.
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