Sheela Raja, PhD, discusses resilience and the distinction between resilience and grit. They explore shame in trauma, accepting negative emotions, and the power of mindfulness for building resilience. The concept of resilience is explored, emphasizing its ever-changing nature and the importance of self-kindness.
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and adapt to stress, and can be developed through practicing self-care, forming healthy relationships, and finding meaning and purpose in life.
Building resilience can be challenging, especially during times of crisis, but it is crucial to continue practicing resilience and seek support from others to overcome the impact of stress and trauma.
Deep dives
Understanding Resilience
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and adapt to stress. It is not innate, but can be learned and developed. Resilience is different from grit, which is the ability to work towards goals and persevere. Resilience involves functioning in the face of stress and trauma, and includes taking care of physical and mental health, forming healthy relationships, and finding meaning and purpose in life.
Different Types of Resilience
There are various types of resilience that can be practiced in everyday life. These include taking care of one's body through exercise, diet, and good sleep; prioritizing mental health and managing emotions; forming healthy and meaningful relationships; and finding a deeper sense of purpose and meaning in life. These four quadrants of resilience provide a framework for building resilience.
Challenges in Building Resilience
Building resilience can be difficult, especially in times of crisis and ongoing stress like the COVID-19 pandemic. People may feel exhausted and struggle to maintain routines and self-care practices. It is important to acknowledge that stress and trauma affect physical and mental well-being, and it is normal to face challenges in building resilience. However, it is crucial to continue practicing resilience and seek support from others.
Resilience, Trauma, and Growth
Resilience is closely related to trauma and can be developed through the process of post-traumatic growth. Resilience is about functioning in the face of stress, while post-traumatic growth involves finding meaning and purpose after traumatic experiences. It is possible to find meaning and purpose even in the aftermath of trauma, and building resilience can help in this process.
Sheela Raja, PhD, author of The Resilient Teen, joins us to discuss resilience. Raja is an associate professor at the University of Illinois at Chicago. She completed postdoctoral training at the National Center for PTSD, and is a nationally recognized expert on the health effects of trauma and trauma-informed health care approaches. Her other books include Overcoming Trauma and PTSD, The PTSD Survival Guide for Teens, and The Sexual Trauma Workbook for Teen Girls.
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