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Your Parenting Mojo - Respectful, research-based parenting ideas to help kids thrive

227: Where emotions come from (and why it matters) Part 2

Oct 21, 2024
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, a leading researcher in emotion science and author of "How Emotions Are Made," joins the discussion to unpack the origins of emotions. She highlights how understanding emotional processes can transform parental approaches to children's feelings. Dr. Barrett emphasizes the importance of emotional granularity, teaching kids to accurately label their emotions, and the role of body budgeting in emotional regulation. She also offers practical tools for parents to help kids navigate their feelings and support emotional understanding during conflicts.
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  • Understanding the concept of body budgeting is crucial for emotional regulation, highlighting how energy management impacts both children and parents.
  • Developing a richer emotional vocabulary empowers parents to help children articulate their feelings, fostering more effective communication and emotional awareness.

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Understanding Emotions in Children

Children's emotional experiences can be complex and often misunderstood by parents and educators. Research cited suggests that autistic children displaying significant meltdowns are experiencing stress, which may be overlooked by adults. Instead of merely needing to learn emotion regulation strategies, these children expend considerable energy managing their emotions, leading to eventual breakdowns. This insight challenges traditional views and highlights the importance of recognizing the underlying emotional struggles faced by children, particularly in stressful situations.

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