This book, written by certified ADHD coach and podcast host Tracy Otsuka, is designed specifically for girls and women with ADHD. It addresses the unique challenges faced by ADHD women, including the gender gap in medical research that often leads to undiagnosed cases and increased problems with anxiety, depression, and other issues. Otsuka provides an entirely new set of tools, systems, and strategies to enhance productivity, focus, and confidence. The book highlights the extraordinary qualities of ADHD women, such as overflowing creativity, laser-focused attention, deep empathy, and fearless entrepreneurial spirit. By dismantling long-standing stereotypes and misinformation, Otsuka offers a beacon of hope for women looking to transform their symptoms into strengths and unlock their full potential.
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When you live with ADHD, it’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of overwhelm, shutdown, and shame. But what if there’s a way to interrupt that pattern without judgment, without spiraling, and without trying to “fix” yourself?
Vanessa Gorelkin is a licensed therapist, executive coach, and returning favorite on the podcast. With 30 years of experience across clinical care and executive leadership, she specializes in helping ADHD women find clarity, stability, and actual tools that work. In this episode, she introduces us to Internal Family Systems (IFS), a powerful framework that helps us make sense of our emotional chaos by getting curious instead of self-critical.
Tracy and Vanessa dive into the difference between the “manager” and “firefighter” parts of our brain, how IFS can reframe emotional dysregulation, and why so many high-achieving women with ADHD still feel like they’re “too much.” They also talk about the surprising way shame shows up in our daily lives, and how compassion is more than just self-care; it’s a powerful strategy for long-term emotional regulation.
Vanessa also shares how IFS creates space for your inner world to feel less chaotic, less punishing, and more connected. You’ll learn how identifying and working with your internal parts can build self-awareness, reduce reactive patterns, and unlock a deeper sense of agency.
Whether you’re new to IFS or already deep into parts work, this episode offers real, relatable guidance for anyone looking to create more emotional balance and self-trust.
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