Author Daniel Goleman discusses his new book 'Optimal: How to Sustain Personal & Organizational Excellence Every Day' and shares insights on mastering emotional intelligence, enhancing creative thinking, the importance of self-awareness, emotional self-management, and building focused attention. He highlights the significance of emotional intelligence in personal success and effectiveness, and explores concepts like self-awareness in investing, managing emotions, learned helplessness vs learned optimism, the perils of a wandering mind, and expanding the circle of caring through loving kindness meditation.
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Quick takeaways
Self-awareness is vital for managing emotions and understanding their impact on our thoughts and actions.
Emotional self-management is crucial for clear-headed decision-making and maintaining balance.
Tools and practices like naming emotions, self-compassion, and seeking feedback can enhance emotional self-management.
Developing a positive outlook and growth mindset are essential for resilience and effective emotional self-management.
Deep dives
The importance of self-awareness
Self-awareness is the foundational skill in emotional intelligence, as it enables us to manage our emotions effectively and understand how they influence our thinking and behavior.
Techniques for emotional self-management
Emotional self-management is critical for making clear-headed decisions and maintaining balance. This involves managing disruptive emotions, marshaling positive emotions, adapting to changing circumstances, and staying positive.
Tools for emotional self-management
To enhance emotional self-management, tools such as naming emotions, body scans, monitoring self-talk, and identifying triggers can be used. Additionally, practices like self-compassion and seeking feedback from others can help develop greater self-awareness and emotional self-mastery.
The importance of learned optimism and growth mindset
Developing a positive outlook and adopting a growth mindset are crucial for resilience and effective emotional self-management. This involves countering negative thoughts, embracing a belief in personal growth and improvement, and cultivating a mindset that sees challenges as opportunities for learning.
The Power of Cognitive Therapy and Countering Negative Thoughts
Cognitive therapy, developed at Penn by Aaron Beck, emphasizes that you don't have to believe your negative thoughts. By countering negative thoughts with positive ones, you can challenge pessimism and improve your mental state.
Addressing the Epidemic of Gloom and the Importance of Purpose
The younger generation is often plagued by a sense of gloom and a belief that everything is hopeless. It is crucial to counteract this negativity by reminding oneself of the potential for change and the importance of finding purpose and mission. Younger people are more likely to commit to companies that care about environmental and social issues.
Managing Stress and Enhancing Resilience
Stress has become a major problem, contributing to burnout, unhappiness, and poor decision-making. Effective stress management involves self-awareness, recognizing the body's stress response, and prioritizing recovery by engaging in activities that promote relaxation, such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or spending time with loved ones.
In this episode, William Green brings back Daniel Goleman, author of “Emotional Intelligence,” an iconic book that’s sold over 5 million copies. Here, Dan talks about his new book, “Optimal: How to Sustain Personal & Organizational Excellence Every Day.” He explains how to master the skills of emotional intelligence to become more productive, more effective, calmer, & happier.
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:
00:00 - Intro
04:55 - Why Daniel Goleman seeks sustainable excellence, not a “flow” state.
10:44 - How Peter Lynch illustrates the dangers of driving yourself too hard.
15:54 - Why companies need emotionally intelligent leaders.
17:23 - How to boost creative thinking by allowing yourself time to relax.
32:02 - Why EQ trumps IQ in the professional world.
34:21 - How to enhance the foundational skill of self-awareness.
37:08 - How to become a better listener.
48:39 - What the Dalai Lama told Dan about self-compassion.
49:27 - How emotional self-management enhances decision making.
50:42 - How to recover from stress & avoid burnout.
1:08:50 - How to build focused attention in a wildly distracting world.
Disclaimer: Slight discrepancies in the timestamps may occur due to podcast platform differences.
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