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Self-Helpless

Overcoming Learned Helplessness with Licensed Therapist, Kati Morton

Dec 19, 2022
Kati Morton, a licensed therapist and best-selling author specializing in mental health, joins Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook to explore learned helplessness. They discuss its origins, effects on relationships, and practical steps for overcoming it. Kati emphasizes the damaging role of social comparison and its ties to joy theft. The conversation dives into conquering unhealthy attachment patterns in relationships and the importance of emotional independence. Listeners gain insights on fostering healthier connections and prioritizing self-care.
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Quick takeaways

  • Learned helplessness stems from repeated negative experiences, often causing individuals to believe they lack the power to change their circumstances.
  • This psychological phenomenon can prevent people from accepting help, leading to a cycle of inaction due to ingrained beliefs of powerlessness.

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Understanding Learned Helplessness

Learned helplessness occurs when individuals repeatedly encounter situations that feel harmful or unable to escape, leading them to stop trying to change their circumstances. This psychological concept originated from experiments conducted on animals, particularly in controlled environments like the Skinner box, where subjects would eventually stop attempting to escape electric shocks after learning they were powerless. This phenomenon is often seen in humans, particularly in abusive relationships or unhealthy environments, where ongoing stressors lead to a freeze response rather than a fight or flight response. The critical implication here is that even without conscious recognition, individuals may adopt a mindset of powerlessness, which can hinder their ability to take proactive steps in their lives.

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