When Anxiety Sneaks Up on You, Try Something Different
May 1, 2024
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Emma Seppala, lecturer at Yale, shares insights on managing workplace anxiety by trying new behaviors like moving around and avoiding doom scrolling. She discusses overcoming self-loathing with self-compassion, breaking the cycle of burnout, and the importance of embracing emotions in the workplace for overall well-being.
Address anxiety by asking 'What do I need right now?' instead of engaging in self-criticism.
Start the day with breath work like Sky Breath Meditation to build resilience against anxiety.
Deep dives
Understanding Anxiety and Taking Action
When facing anxious moments at work, instead of engaging in typical anxious behaviors, listeners are encouraged to pause and ask themselves, 'What do I need right now?' By recognizing their needs, individuals can address their anxiety effectively. Emma Sepula, a lecturer at Yale, emphasizes the importance of psychological self-awareness and suggests allowing valuable emotions to be experienced rather than suppressed to achieve freedom from self-destructive beliefs and behaviors.
Cultivating Resilience Through Daily Practices
Emma Sepula shares her personal daily practice to cultivate resilience against anxiety. Starting her day with the Sky Breath Meditation, she emphasizes the power of breath work in managing anxiety. Supported by research on breath work benefits for veterans and post-traumatic stress, Sepula highlights the effectiveness of daily practices in strengthening the nervous system and promoting resilience in handling daily challenges.
Rewriting Self-Critical Scripts with Self-Compassion
Emma Sepula stresses the detrimental impact of self-criticism on mental health, emphasizing the need to replace self-loathing with self-compassion. Research shows that self-compassion leads to better mental and physical health, improved relationships, and enhanced cognitive skills. By shifting self-critical narratives towards self-kindness, individuals can foster greater emotional well-being and resilience.
Balancing Achievement with Self-Care for Optimal Performance
Emma Sepula challenges the ingrained belief that self-destructive behaviors lead to success, advocating for self-care as a path to peak performance. Research supports that taking care of oneself enhances innovation, decision-making, and emotional intelligence. Anecdotes illustrate that prioritizing self-care and listening to personal needs can lead to increased productivity, happiness, and achievement without burnout.
Imagine you are having an anxious moment at work. Instead of letting yourself slip into old patterns of negative thoughts or self-criticisms, today’s guest says you can take a step back and try something new: maybe moving around, going out for lunch, drinking some water - but definitely not doom scrolling.
Emma Seppala is a lecturer at Yale and author of the book Sovereign: Reclaim Your Freedom, Energy, and Power in a Time of Distraction, Uncertainty, and Chaos. In this episode, she explains behavior changes that can make a big difference in your career.
Check out Emma’s book here: https://www.amazon.com/Sovereign-Reclaim-Freedom-Distraction-Uncertainty/dp/1401975062
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