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How to Actually Be Present | Matthew Brensilver

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Dec 22, 2023
Matthew Brensilver, a meditation teacher and co-author on adolescence mindfulness, dives deep into the essence of being present. He tackles the overwhelming nature of intrusive memories during meditation and the brain's predictive tendencies. With insights on mindfulness as a form of exposure therapy, he emphasizes treating past experiences as sensations for emotional healing. Brensilver also discusses the profound benefits of meditation retreats, encouraging listeners to embrace uncertainty and cultivate a compassionate relationship with their thoughts.
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INSIGHT

Being Present

  • Being present means not identifying with discursive thoughts, but rather having metacognitive awareness of the present moment.
  • True presence involves surrendering vigilance about the future and being open to the present, even if momentarily.
ADVICE

Approaching Mindfulness

  • Define mindfulness in a workable way initially, but understand that its meaning deepens with practice.
  • Don't get discouraged by lofty definitions of presence; instead, approach it with curiosity and wonder.
ADVICE

Avoid Self-Assessment

  • Avoid measuring your meditation practice against rigid definitions of mindfulness.
  • See lofty descriptions as inspiration, and appreciate the vastness of these qualities of mind.
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