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The Anxious Achiever

What’s the Root of Your Perfectionism?

Mar 5, 2025
Susan Schmitt Winchester, an author and former Fortune 500 CHRO, shares her insights on perfectionism's impact on careers and mental health. She discusses the toxic influence of demanding bosses that can fuel perfectionist behavior. With practical strategies, she encourages reframing thoughts and managing workloads to alleviate anxiety. Additionally, Susan emphasizes the importance of embracing vulnerability and understanding emotional triggers. Listeners are provided with actionable tools to foster healthier mindsets and improve their professional lives.
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding the roots of perfectionism helps individuals break free from people-pleasing behaviors that harm mental health and self-worth.
  • Employing practical strategies like the QQTR method can reduce anxiety related to perfectionism and promote healthier workplace interactions.

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Understanding Perfectionism

Perfectionism often leads individuals to engage in people-pleasing behaviors and self-doubt, particularly in high-stress environments. This mindset can manifest as a fear of failure that cripples performance, prompting individuals to question their worth based on external validation rather than their true value. For instance, the story of a manager's erratic leadership, symbolized by a figurative flip of a sign between two distinct character representations, highlights the emotional toll this behavior can inflict on subordinates, creating confusion and a constant need to prove oneself. The realization that perfectionism derives from past experiences can help individuals identify unhealthy patterns that adversely affect their mental health and career success.

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