Radical Candor: Communication at Work

Ruinous Empathy and Criticism | 4

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Jan 24, 2017
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ANECDOTE

The Story of Bob

  • Kim Scott shares a story about "Bob," an employee she liked but who performed poorly.
  • Due to ruinous empathy, she avoided giving him criticism, ultimately leading to his firing and regret.
ANECDOTE

Kelly's Story

  • Russ Laraway describes inheriting an underperforming team at Google, led by Kelly.
  • He fired Kelly, who later thanked him, realizing she needed the push.
ADVICE

Handling Upset Feelings

  • Don't avoid criticism to prevent tears; react with compassion when upset feelings arise.
  • Provide support and time, then resume the conversation in a teachable moment.
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