Radical Candor: Communication at Work

Debbie Millman, a renowned designer, author, and educator, dives into the messy side of creativity and growth during this eye-opening conversation. She shares how failure and self-doubt can pave the way for success, emphasizing that confidence isn’t magic. Through her gardening journey, she reveals lessons on patience and asking for help. Debbie's new book, 'Love Letter to a Garden,' intertwines personal struggles with newfound hope and even includes a delicious tomato sauce recipe from her wife, Roxane Gay. It's a delightful reminder to embrace the messiness and plant something.

Being the 'cool' boss might win you popularity, but it often lacks respect. Discover how accountability is a key leadership skill that fosters growth, rather than a sign of cruelty. Learn the fine line between being nice and being kind, and why timely feedback is essential. Unpack the emotional labor of leadership and explore how inspired teams outperform those led by fear. This engaging conversation challenges the myths of leadership and shares practical strategies to create a culture of accountability and collaboration.

From malfunctioning WiFi to epic commutes and offices mysteriously out of toilet paper, the “return to office” era is serving up workplace absurdity on a silver platter. Jason and Amy blow past the corporate spin and get Radically Candid about the “back to the office” push: why it’s often more about control than collaboration, how companies overlook basic human needs, and the ways these policies can quietly erode trust, productivity, and psychological safety. From generational gripes to the myth that face time means innovation, they call out the real reasons so many leaders want butts in seats—and why those reasons rarely hold up. Who’s actually benefiting from all this office hoopla? Because at Radical Candor, we believe real leadership means listening, adapting, and making work suck a whole lot less—even if it means challenging the status quo. Get all of the show notes at RadicalCandor.com/podcast. Episode Links: Transcript Cockroaches And Working In A Closet: Inside Trump's Return-To-Office Order | Reuters No Toilet Paper And No Privacy: Returning To The Office, Federal Workers Walk Into Chaos | The New York Times Return To Office. Not Sure What To Do, A Bit Stressed. : R/Fednews What Happened At Your Org After They Implemented Their Return To Work Policy? : R/Jobs The Official List Of Every Company’s Back-To-Office Strategy | Hubble Federal Workers Ordered Back To Office Find Shortages Of Desks, Wi-Fi And Toilet Paper Does Returning To The Office Support Your Company’s Strategy? | HBR How To Get Return To Office Right | McKinsey RTO Mandate Trends In 2025: Why Forcing Employees Back To The Office Hurts Business | Hub Staff New Research Suggests Remote Jobs Are Best For Company’s Bottom Line | Forbes The Strength Of Weak Ties | Stanford Report Connect: Website Instagram TikTok LinkedIn YouTube Chapters: (00:00:00) Introduction Jason and Amy introduce the episode’s topic on return to office trends. (00:01:28) The Radical Candor Remote Philosophy Why the company is remote-first and the downsides of in-person work. (00:06:41) Office Productivity & Innovation Whether productivity and innovation improve when in office.  (00:10:27) Navigating Unwanted Change Advice for employees facing unwanted return-to-office changes. (00:16:13) Should You Stay or Should You Go? Evaluating if you should start job hunting or try to adapt to the new reality. (00:19:17) Burnout, Hybrid, and Hidden Costs Research on burnout and the importance of workplace social connections. (00:24:19) The Cost of Constant Interruptions Challenges with distractions and productivity in office environments. (00:30:22) Generational and Gender Gaps Differences in RTO satisfaction in different demographics. (00:32:07) Having Effective RTO Conversations Advocating for your needs and establishing new office processes. (00:35:29) Radical Candor Tips Tips for employees and managers navigating return-to-office mandates. (00:39:48) Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Move fast, break things, and hope no one notices? Not so fast. In this episode, Kim and Jason rip into the shiny promise of speed at all costs—and the very real damage it leaves behind. From slashing vital research to chasing clicks with outrage bait, they expose how a lack of debate, accountability, and thoughtful decision-making can spiral into chaos. This isn’t just about tech; it’s about what happens when leaders skip the hard conversations and dodge the consequences. Drawing from their own experiences, they make the case for cultures that value learning over ego, action over excuses, and why psychological safety isn’t just nice to have—it’s non-negotiable. It’s a no-BS look at what happens when no one’s allowed to say, “Hey, maybe let’s not.”Get all of the show notes at RadicalCandor.com/podcast.Episode Links: Transcript How To Get Shit Done | Radical Candor Podcast 4 | 2 Leaders Can Move Fast And Fix Things CEO Of $4.2 Billion Tech Giant Says Defying Silicon Valley's ‘Move Fast And Break Things’ Mantra Was Essential To Growing His Business | Fortune Amy Edmondson—The Science Of Failing Well | Radical Candor Podcast 5 | 18 The Measurement Problem—Development Versus Management | Radical Candor Podcast 3 | 7 Connect: Website Instagram TikTok LinkedIn YouTube Chapters:(00:00:00) IntroductionKim and Jason introduce the episode's topic of the "move fast and break things" philosophy.(00:00:31) Mistakes, Innovation, and SafetyWhy admitting errors is key to progress—even in high-stakes fields.(00:02:44) Ebola Funding FalloutA case study in reckless decisions and real-world impact.(00:05:08) When Speed Isn’t the AnswerHow context matters—from search engines to nuclear plants.(00:08:10) Accountability & PowerThe erosion of checks and balances in tech and government.(00:10:30) Scale Changes the StakesWhy today’s tech giants can’t play by startup rules.(00:14:40) Metrics That MisleadHow measuring engagement drives harmful content.(00:20:01) Debate Fuels InnovationWhy creating space for disagreement leads to better outcomes.(00:23:43)  Power, Politics, and PlatformsHow tech companies avoid regulation and the need for public input(00:28:52) Inside Content ModerationKim’s Google stories and the need for democratic input.(00:36:46) Why Oversight Is So HardThe difficulty of encouraging informed debate in organizations.(00:41:37) Radical Candor TipsTips for moving fast without breaking what matters most.(00:42:52) Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Struggling with bureaucratic bottlenecks? Dive into the conversation about how outdated processes can stifle trust and creativity. Discover the difference between meaningful and meaningless approvals, and learn how to advocate for change. Experience real-life scenarios illustrating the tension between empowering decisions and adhering to corporate protocols. With actionable tips on practicing radical candor and fostering open communication, this discussion aims to help you navigate the red tape without burning bridges.

The show dives into the troubling use of NDAs and forced arbitration that silence employees and protect corporate power. It challenges manipulative marketing practices targeting vulnerable youth and discusses the ethical dilemmas surrounding these tactics. The hosts share personal stories about the repercussions of NDAs and urge for cultural change in organizations. They advocate for accountability, transparency, and the importance of employee voices, reinforcing that true leadership involves doing the right thing, not just protecting oneself.

Bob Sutton, Stanford professor emeritus and author of bestselling books like The No Asshole Rule, dives into the essential principles of humane leadership. He discusses the detrimental impact of toxic behavior on productivity and how compassionate leadership can drastically improve workplace culture. Sutton highlights the complex role of friction within organizations, the necessity of healthy conflict for innovation, and why effective bosses balance candor with care. His insights remind us that prioritizing respect and decency is crucial for thriving teams.

Join former Google executive and author Jenny Wood as she shakes up the traditional career playbook with her bold insights. Jenny reveals how unconventional traits, like assertiveness and a dash of selfishness, can become your superpowers. She stresses the importance of risk-taking over waiting for permission, and how mastering the art of saying 'no' can reshape your life. With tales from her tech career and practical tips, this conversation is all about stepping out of your comfort zone to truly get what you want.

Join Dr. Alison Wood Brooks, a Harvard Business School professor and author, as she unpacks the secrets to effective conversation. Discover the TALK framework—Topics, Asking, Levity, and Kindness—essential for captivating your audience. Learn how to conquer small talk struggles, enhance feedback mechanisms, and navigate group dynamics in meetings. With science-backed strategies, Alison helps you transform awkward exchanges into meaningful connections, leaving you feeling more confident in every interaction.

When a PIP feels like a setup, how do you handle it without compromising your integrity? Trapped between an HR-driven process that feels like a sham and a direct report who’s not meeting expectations? That’s a management nightmare. When a boss hands you a struggling employee with the unspoken expectation that you’ll “manage them out,” how do you stay honest, maintain trust, and avoid turning into the workplace grim reaper? Kim, Jason, and Amy break down the emotional and ethical toll of Performance Improvement Plans (PIPs), how to navigate them without feeling like a pawn, and why Radical Candor is the only way through. This isn’t about sugarcoating or corporate theater—it’s about handling tough conversations with clarity, fairness, and a whole lot less BS. Get all of the show notes at RadicalCandor.com/podcast. Episode Links: Transcript The Radical Candor Order of Operations | Radical Candor Managing Challenging Conversations At Work | Radical Candor What Does Managing Out Mean? | Radical Candor Podcast 6 | 6 Performance Improvement Plans | Radical Candor Podcast 5 | 20 The Measurement Problem | Radical Candor Podcast 3 | 7 How To Gauge Your Feedback | Radical Candor Are You 'Helping' or Micromanaging? | Radical Candor Podcast 5 | 2 Is Your Employee In The Wrong Job? Don't Let Ruinous Empathy Ruin Your Team Absentee Management vs. Quiet Firing | Radical Candor Podcast 5 | 3 Website Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Facebook YouTube Chapters:(00:00:00) IntroductionKim, Jason, and Amy introduce a listener’s question on handling a PIP with integrity.(00:02:28) Leadership FailuresHow bad management decisions created this unfair situation.(00:06:15) Is This Process Disingenuous?Struggling with feeling inauthentic when following HR's PIP process.(00:09:19) The Emotional Toll of Performance ManagementThe frustrations of the process for both the manager and the direct report.(00:13:51) Communicating Radical Candor During a PIPFraming tough conversations without misleading employees.(00:18:51) Why Informal PIPs ExistThe value of informal PIPs in ensuring fairness.(00:22:17) Responding to Employee PushbackHandling direct reports who challenge the PIP process.(00:28:28) What Can a Manager Legally and Ethically Say?Making difficult conversations feel more human and constructive.(00:32:59) Radical Candor TipsLessons for managing performance issues with Radical Candor.(00:36:05) Pushing Back to the Boss Having a candid conversation about being put in this situation.(00:37:25) Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices