Laurie Santos, a cognitive scientist at Yale University and host of the Happiness Lab podcast, dives into the fascinating world of happiness research. She explores cognitive time travel, discussing how reflecting on the past and envisioning the future can ease anxiety. Laurie breaks down the layers of happiness, emphasizing the importance of staying present and navigating life's challenges. She also highlights the joy of social interactions, even with strangers, and the impact of technology on our connections. A thought-provoking conversation on achieving true contentment!
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Two Types of Happiness
Laurie Santos distinguishes between happiness in your life and happiness for your life.
The former is about present emotions, while the latter concerns overall life satisfaction.
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Expectations vs. Reality
Expectations shape experiences more than the experiences themselves.
Climbing Mount Everest and parenting are physically and mentally demanding, but the expected "glory" makes them worthwhile.
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The Need to Struggle
Humans have a fundamental need to struggle.
Even with abundant joys, people will create challenges, suggesting contentment comes from overcoming adversity.
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Atomic Habits by James Clear provides a practical and scientifically-backed guide to forming good habits and breaking bad ones. The book introduces the Four Laws of Behavior Change: make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, and make it satisfying. It also emphasizes the importance of small, incremental changes (atomic habits) that compound over time to produce significant results. Clear discusses techniques such as habit stacking, optimizing the environment to support desired habits, and focusing on continuous improvement rather than goal fixation. The book is filled with actionable strategies, real-life examples, and stories from various fields, making it a valuable resource for anyone seeking to improve their habits and achieve personal growth[2][4][5].
Far From the Tree
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In *Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come*, Jessica Pan chronicles her year of forcing herself to live as an extrovert. Pan, a self-described 'shintrovert,' was feeling lonely and depressed due to her extreme shyness and lack of social interactions. She decided to challenge herself by engaging in various daunting new experiences such as stand-up comedy, solo vacations, and networking events. The book is a humorous and sincere account of her trials, revelations, and the lessons she learned about human connection and personal growth. Pan's journey involves consulting with experts, facing her fears through exposure therapy, and ultimately forming new friendships and gaining confidence.
Laurie Santos is a superstar in the crowded field of happiness research. She is a cognitive scientist at Yale University whose course on the psychology of happiness was the most popular class in the school's history. She is the host of the immensely popular ‘Happiness Lab’ podcast. Today, she and Derek talk about her favorite lessons from modern happiness research, lessons on striving and anxiety from existential philosophy, our relationship to time, the science of cognitive time travel, temporal mind tricks to reduce anxiety like "psychological distancing," and more.
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