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The Gifts of our Exiles: a Talk with Paul Neustadt

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May 23, 2020
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INSIGHT

Nature of Exiles

  • Exiles are vulnerable parts, often young, carrying burdens of mistaken beliefs about themselves.
  • These burdens stem from trauma, societal pressures, and unmet needs during childhood.
ADVICE

Seeing Beyond the Burden

  • Recognize the difference between the exile and its burden: see the hidden child beneath.
  • Reflect the exile's goodness back to it, even before unburdening, to soften protectors.
INSIGHT

Unique True Self

  • Each individual possesses a unique "true self" or "true nature" with unique gifts.
  • Unburdening exiles helps reconnect with these gifts, allowing for self-acceptance.
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