At Work with The Ready

Brave New Work 19. The Secrets for Better One-On-Ones with Michael Bungay Stanier

Mar 17, 2020

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What's the Real Challenge in This for You?

04:34

Coaching Seniors - Don't Be Delusional

02:38

Box of Crayons - The Coaching Habit

02:15

Introduction

2min

The One-on-One Meeting

2min

What's Your Hot Take on One-on Meetings?

3min

The Problem With One-on-Ones

4min

What Makes a Good One on One?

3min

The Three C's Friday Afternoon Framework

2min

One on Ones Are Not Just for Bosses Anymore

3min

Is There a Place for the One on One in Transformation?

2min

Are You Into One on One's?

2min

10.

The Coaching Habit and the Advice Trap: Michael Bunge-Stannier

2min

11.

Box of Crayons - The Coaching Habit

2min

12.

Coach Coaching

3min

13.

Are All One on Ones Bad?

3min

14.

One on Ones With Your Team

4min

15.

How Do You Lead With Curiousness?

3min

16.

Save It Is the Second Persona of the Advice Monster

3min

17.

I've Got the Answers, but It's Not Complex

2min

18.

Coaching Seniors - Don't Be Delusional

3min

19.

What's the Real Challenge in This for You?

5min

20.

M.O.D.L.S.

2min

21.

How Useful and Valuable Is Your Team Leader?

2min

The one-on-one meeting, often between a manager and their "direct report" is among the most common and popular meetings in existence. But it may also be the most harmful.

In this episode of Brave New Work, Aaron Dignan and Rodney Evans debate and discuss the best and worst ways to hold this meeting. Later, they're joined by the author of The Coaching Habit, Michael Bungay Stanier, to figure out how to show up to one-on-ones as a coach rather than a boss.

Learn more about Michael and his work on LinkedIn and his website.

Learn more about Box of Crayons on their website and on Youtube.

Resources mentioned:

The Ready's Tension and Practice Deck
"Radical candor": Episode 13 with Kim Scott
"Dunbar's number"
"First 90 days of self-management": Episode 11 with Doug Seacrist
"Rockefeller Habits": Mastering the Rockefeller Habits by Verne Harnish
The Practice of Adaptive Leadership by Ronald Heifetz
Immunity to Change by Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey

Our book is available now at bravenewwork.com

We want to hear from you. Send your thoughts and feedback to podcast@theready.com

Looking for some help with your own transformation? Visit theready.com

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At Work with The Ready

Brave New Work 19. The Secrets for Better One-On-Ones with Michael Bungay Stanier

What's the Real Challenge in This for You?

Coaching Seniors - Don't Be Delusional

Box of Crayons - The Coaching Habit

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