You Are Not So Smart

009 - Arguing

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Sep 27, 2013
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INSIGHT

Reasoning Is Socially Adapted

  • Reasoning evolved as a social tool for exchanging and evaluating arguments, not primarily for lone truth-seeking.
  • Mercier and Sperber argue reasoning optimizes collective belief improvement through argumentation.
ADVICE

Mirror To Deescalate Arguments

  • When debates escalate into infallibility contests, stop and mirror the other's position to deescalate.
  • Restate their view neutrally, ask "Did I get it?", then stay quiet and listen for correction.
ADVICE

Mirror Without Mocking

  • To avoid escalation, avoid mocking and snark when mirroring an opponent's view.
  • Keep tone neutral and be prepared to repeat until they confirm accurate understanding.
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