The Francesca Psychology Podcast

Dr Julie Smith: How to Build Social Confidence, Heal After a Breakup & Spot Fake Friends Fast

Apr 15, 2025
Dr. Julie Smith is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author known for her engaging mental health content. In this lively conversation, she discusses recognizing unhealthy friendships and offers strategies for setting boundaries. She shares insights from her book 'Open When,' emphasizing genuine human connection during tough times. Julie tackles social anxiety and how to build confidence through proactive engagement. Plus, she explores transforming comparison into inspiration—all vital tools for navigating life's emotional challenges.
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ADVICE

Evaluating Friendships

  • Notice how you feel after interacting with friends; do you feel safe and joyful or anxious and insecure?
  • Consider what you contribute to the friendship and evaluate if the relationship nurtures or damages your well-being.
INSIGHT

Social Confidence

  • Socially confident people focus outwardly on others, showing genuine interest in their lives.
  • They initiate conversations, making others feel welcome instead of waiting to be welcomed themselves.
ADVICE

Fitting In

  • If fitting into a group requires compromising your values or suppressing your true self, question if belonging is worth it.
  • Evaluate if the group's behavior is causing your struggle to fit in, considering if they punish authenticity.
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