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How to raise an adult
Book • 2015
In this book, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and her own insights as a mother and student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large.
She offers practical alternative strategies that emphasize the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
The book is relevant to parents of toddlers, teens, and twentysomethings, and serves as a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
She offers practical alternative strategies that emphasize the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
The book is relevant to parents of toddlers, teens, and twentysomethings, and serves as a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
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Mentioned in 8 episodes
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as the author of the New York Times bestseller, How to Raise an Adult, discussing the negative consequences of blocking children from distress.


Rich Roll

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as the author of books offering wisdom for parents and young adults on navigating adulthood and societal expectations.


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as the author's previous work on parenting.

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as an excellent book about raising adults.

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as books offering wisdom on raising children and navigating adulthood.


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as a book that addresses the issue of over-involved parents in their children's lives.

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as a New York Times bestseller focusing on raising successful kids without over-parenting.


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as a guide to better parenting, focusing on raising independent children.

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