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Mentioned in 13 episodes
Love & Respect
The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
Book • 2004
In 'Love & Respect,' Dr. Emerson Eggerichs argues that the primary emotional needs for men and women are different: men need respect, while women need love.
The book introduces the concepts of the 'Crazy Cycle' and the 'Energizing Cycle' to explain how negative and positive communication patterns can impact a marriage.
Eggerichs provides practical tips and exercises to help couples break down communication barriers, handle conflict, and foster a deeper love and respect for each other.
The book is based on over three decades of counseling and research, and it aims to help couples achieve a more fulfilling and biblically grounded relationship.
The book introduces the concepts of the 'Crazy Cycle' and the 'Energizing Cycle' to explain how negative and positive communication patterns can impact a marriage.
Eggerichs provides practical tips and exercises to help couples break down communication barriers, handle conflict, and foster a deeper love and respect for each other.
The book is based on over three decades of counseling and research, and it aims to help couples achieve a more fulfilling and biblically grounded relationship.
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Mentioned in 13 episodes
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as a series that changed his life and provided insights into relationships and leadership.


Alex Hormozi

159 snips
The Three Dimensions of Leadership | Ep 678
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in the context of their book Love and Respect and its problematic premise.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

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Episode 267: Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Often Backfires
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as an example of a book that pastors often recommend despite lacking formal psychological training.

Joanna Sawatsky

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Episode 285: Are Soul Ties Real? Overcoming a Purity Culture Teaching
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as a popular book on Amazon about marriage and relationships.


Yasir Qadhi

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Mothers of the Believers - Episode 04 - Khadija bint Khuwaylid Part 02
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as one of the top-selling Christian marriage books.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

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Episode 274: The Marriage You Actually Want
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as a great book on marriage.


Patrick Bet David

The Truth Behind Fake News w/ Batya Ungar-Sargon | PBD Podcast | Ep. 172
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in the context of a debate on Twitter about love and respect in marriage.

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Episode 150: The Great Sex Rescue—Debunking Harmful Messages About Intimacy in Christian Marriage with Sheila Wray Gregoire
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as a profound understanding of how to deal with people and build better relationships.


Alex Hormozi

The Three Dimensions of Leadership | EP 130
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and her guests for its methodology and conclusions regarding the needs of men and women in marriage.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

Episode 266: Demolishing the Love and Respect Dichotomy Definitively (with Data)
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Gregoire for its potentially harmful advice on marriage dynamics.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

Keith

Episode 277: Why Emotions Aren't Feminine (and Why Women Aren't More Emotional!)
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as a book that contained unhealthy teachings about marriage and sex.

Sheila Wray Gregoire

The Marriage You Want (with Sheila Wray Gregoire)
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in comparison to Marriage on the Rock.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

Episode 262: Problems with Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans
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when discussing unhealthy leadership patterns and the need for love and respect.

Jesse DeYoung

CNLP 515 | Jim Burgen and Jesse DeYoung on the Anatomy of Toxic Church Leadership, Church Growth and Identity, and How Leadership Crushes You
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in the context of a discussion about unconditional love and respect in relationships.

John Sonmez

123. Better Than Perfect with John & Nicole Sonmez
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as a mentor who wrote a book on love and respect.

Gabe Lyons

No Secrets, No Shame: Building a Marriage That Heals | Gabe Lyons 469
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as a book she read in 2019 that impacted her views on marriage.

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Sheila Wray Gregoire: Cultivating the Marriage You Want
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as a book about improving relationships, particularly when respect is lacking.


Patrick Bet David

Bill Maher on WEF, Donald Trump vs Robert DeNiro, Derek Chauvin Stabbing | PBD Podcast | Ep. 336
Mentioned by Joanna; the book discusses housework from a traditional perspective.

Episode 272: Is "Acts of Service" Love Language Really a Cry for Help? All New Bonus Stats!
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as an example of a book with potentially harmful advice.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

Episode 270: What Does Prioritizing Marriage Look Like? Plus Do You Have to Choose Between Being a Good Wife and a Good Mom?
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in the context of a podcast clip discussing marital compromise and the needs of men and women.

Sheila Rae Gregoire

Episode 269: The Marriage Hierarchy of Needs—and Why Compromise Doesn’t Work