Sheila Wray Gregoire

In a compelling discussion, Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of 'The Great Sex Rescue,' unpacks the myths surrounding sexual intimacy in Christian marriages. Drawing from her research with over 20,000 women, she reveals the damaging effects of viewing sex as an obligation. Sheila emphasizes the importance of mutual satisfaction and reframing intimacy to foster true connection. The conversation also explores how to challenge harmful teachings and prioritize emotional closeness, providing hope and practical wisdom for couples seeking deeper intimacy.

Sheila Wray Gregoire, an award-winning author and founder of baremarriage.com, dives deep into the secrets of marital satisfaction. She challenges common beliefs about compromise and reveals how emotional intimacy trumps sexual frequency. Sheila shares compelling survey data that highlights the importance of partnership and mutual support. Discover how being present for each other and addressing foundational needs can rebuild trust. With humor and insight, she redefines what makes a marriage truly fulfilling, highlighting the transformative joys of committed love.

In this podcast, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Benjamin Nolot discuss our culture's sexual framework, particularly within the Christian sphere. They highlight the harmful impact of teachings that frame sex as a male need that women must tend to. They explore the negative effects of withholding in relationships, the importance of emotional intimacy, and addressing deeper issues. They also mention the release of Benjamin Nolot's book 'Raised on Porn' and emphasize the need for mutual love, understanding, and self-control in building intimacy. Lastly, they touch on societal expectations, power dynamics, and the importance of creating safer spaces for open dialogue about sexuality.

Sheila Wray Gregoire, founder of Bare Marriage and author of multiple books on relationships, and Marissa Burt, author of "The Myth of Good Christian Parenting," dive into the flaws of traditional evangelical teachings. They challenge the notion of women as mere vessels for men, advocating for genuine intimacy that respects both partners' desires. The duo critiques punitive parenting methods and emphasizes nurturing over discipline, promoting equality in marriage and a reevaluation of influential doctrines that shape family dynamics.

Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of She Deserves Better, discusses the impact of purity culture on relationships and sexual satisfaction. They dive into creating a better environment for children within Christianity and promoting vulnerability and healing across generations. They also explore valuing the voices of daughters and the negative consequences of suppressing their autonomy.