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Episode 150: The Great Sex Rescue—Debunking Harmful Messages About Intimacy in Christian Marriage with Sheila Wray Gregoire

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Mar 27, 2025
In a compelling discussion, Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of 'The Great Sex Rescue,' unpacks the myths surrounding sexual intimacy in Christian marriages. Drawing from her research with over 20,000 women, she reveals the damaging effects of viewing sex as an obligation. Sheila emphasizes the importance of mutual satisfaction and reframing intimacy to foster true connection. The conversation also explores how to challenge harmful teachings and prioritize emotional closeness, providing hope and practical wisdom for couples seeking deeper intimacy.
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The Orgasm Gap and Sexual Pain

  • Sheila Wray Gregoire's survey of 20,000 evangelical women revealed a 47-point orgasm gap between men and women.
  • Evangelical women also experience sexual pain disorders at twice the rate of the general population.
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Obligation Sex and Trauma

  • The belief that women are obligated to have sex on demand increases the likelihood of sexual pain.
  • Women's bodies may interpret obligation as trauma, hindering intimacy.
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The Importance of Female Arousal

  • Prioritizing intercourse over female arousal in Christian marriages can negatively impact women's libido long-term.
  • A woman's first experience with intercourse matters significantly for future sexual satisfaction.
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