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What Do You Say?
How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home
Book • 2021
In 'What Do You Say?', William Stixrud and Ned Johnson offer a comprehensive guide on how to communicate effectively with children.
The book focuses on defining and demonstrating the basic principles of listening and speaking, and provides new ways to handle specific, thorny topics such as delivering constructive feedback, discussing technology boundaries, explaining sleep and brain function, addressing anxiety about current events, and family problem-solving.
The authors emphasize the importance of treating parents as consultants rather than managers, encouraging children to make their own decisions, and maintaining a positive communication ratio to foster a supportive and resilient family environment.
The book focuses on defining and demonstrating the basic principles of listening and speaking, and provides new ways to handle specific, thorny topics such as delivering constructive feedback, discussing technology boundaries, explaining sleep and brain function, addressing anxiety about current events, and family problem-solving.
The authors emphasize the importance of treating parents as consultants rather than managers, encouraging children to make their own decisions, and maintaining a positive communication ratio to foster a supportive and resilient family environment.
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Mentioned in 5 episodes
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as a recently published follow-up to "The Self-Driven Child".


Janet Lansbury

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In an Age of Anxiety, How to Stop Worrying and Raise Less Stressed Kids (with Dr. William Stixrud)
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as a book written by the podcast guests.

Ginny Yurich

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1KHO 451: Trust Your Kids More and Worry About Them Less | Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson, The Self-Driven Child
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referring to his views on basically giving opinion, but saying that it's the child's life and decision.

Ginny Yurich

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1KHO 529: Tantrums Are an Emotional Poop | Devon Kuntzman, Transforming Toddlerhood
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as providing the premise that lack of control is one of the most anxiety producing things that can happen to someone.

Ginny Yurich

1KHO 489: Why Modern Childhood Is Failing Kids' Bodies and Brains | Angela Hanscom, Balanced and Barefoot
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as a book he co-authored with Dr. William Stixrud, offering insights into communication and motivation in families.

Ned Johnson

The SAT, ACT, and Other Four-Letter Words: What Do You Say When Your Kid's Scores are Low?
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for its advice on effective communication with children.


Ryan Holiday

Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson on Raising Resilient Kids
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for its insights on communication and building a happy home.


Ryan Holiday

Daily Dad’s Best Parenting Habits for 2022
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; it's about communicating effectively with teenagers.


Ryan Holiday

Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson on Building Resilience and Communicating Effectively | It's About What You Make of It
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as a follow-up book to "The Self-Driven Child".


Sarah Rosensweet

Best of Guest Expert Advice from 2024: Episode 176
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as a book co-authored by ![undefined]()

and Dr. William Stixrud, offering guidance on effective communication with children to build motivation and stress tolerance.


Alyson Schafer

Ned Johnson

189: The Seven Principles for Raising a Self-Driven Child