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What Do You Say?
How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home
Book • 2021
In 'What Do You Say?', William Stixrud and Ned Johnson offer a comprehensive guide on how to communicate effectively with children.
The book focuses on defining and demonstrating the basic principles of listening and speaking, and provides new ways to handle specific, thorny topics such as delivering constructive feedback, discussing technology boundaries, explaining sleep and brain function, addressing anxiety about current events, and family problem-solving.
The authors emphasize the importance of treating parents as consultants rather than managers, encouraging children to make their own decisions, and maintaining a positive communication ratio to foster a supportive and resilient family environment.
The book focuses on defining and demonstrating the basic principles of listening and speaking, and provides new ways to handle specific, thorny topics such as delivering constructive feedback, discussing technology boundaries, explaining sleep and brain function, addressing anxiety about current events, and family problem-solving.
The authors emphasize the importance of treating parents as consultants rather than managers, encouraging children to make their own decisions, and maintaining a positive communication ratio to foster a supportive and resilient family environment.
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Mentioned in 4 episodes
Mentioned by Ginny Yurich as providing the premise that lack of control is one of the most anxiety producing things that can happen to someone.

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Mentioned by Ned Johnson as a book he co-authored with Dr. William Stixrud, offering insights into communication and motivation in families.

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Alyson Schafer as a book co-authored by Ned Johnson and Dr. William Stixrud, offering guidance on effective communication with children to build motivation and stress tolerance.


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