The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast 1KHO 529: Tantrums Are an Emotional Poop | Devon Kuntzman, Transforming Toddlerhood
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Jul 20, 2025 Devon Kuntzman, a toddler expert from Transforming Toddlerhood, offers a refreshing perspective on toddler tantrums, likening them to emotional poops. She discusses how nature and connection can ease challenging moments, emphasizing that meltdowns are essential for emotional release. Kuntzman provides strategies for fostering independence and cooperation, encouraging parents to turn refusals into choices. With a focus on emotional safety and outdoor exploration, she reassures caregivers that they're not alone in navigating this chaotic yet beautiful stage of parenting.
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Outdoor Calm for Toddlers
- Taking toddlers outside engages their senses and calms them quickly.
- Devon's son calms down within minutes when outside, even as a baby.
No Means Independence
- Toddlers say no to assert independence, not to be difficult.
- Saying no helps them separate identity from parents, marking personal boundaries.
Redirecting Toddler "No"
- Turn toddler "no" into "not yet" by validating feelings and offering choices.
- Allow toddlers to say no within safe boundaries to give them a sense of control.
