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Parenting The Adlerian Way

189: The Seven Principles for Raising a Self-Driven Child

Mar 31, 2025
Ned Johnson, President of Prep Matters and co-author of several books on self-driven children, returns to share insights on his new workbook for parents. He highlights the alarming rise of anxiety and depression among teens, linking it to academic pressures and the need for autonomy. Johnson discusses redefining success beyond academics and fostering resilience through strong parent-child connections. He emphasizes nurturing emotional regulation in parents to better support their children and explores the healing power of laughter in building connections.
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  • Control is vital for preventing youth mental health challenges, particularly anxiety and depression, by fostering resilience and autonomy.
  • Academic success does not guarantee happiness, as fulfilling relationships and emotional health are essential for a child's overall well-being.

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The Crisis of Adolescent Mental Health

Current data highlights a significant crisis in adolescent mental health, with rising rates of anxiety and depression among younger populations. A staggering number of adolescents are exhibiting signs of these disorders, often leading to alarming outcomes, including hospital admissions due to suicidal thoughts. This situation is exacerbated by schools pushing high academic performance while sacrificing essential mental health needs, such as adequate sleep, which the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends should be eight to ten hours per night. The psychological ramifications are serious; adolescents may develop a neurochemistry that predisposes them to lifelong mental health challenges if these issues are not addressed.

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