Parenting The Adlerian Way 189: The Seven Principles for Raising a Self-Driven Child
Mar 31, 2025
Ned Johnson, President of Prep Matters and co-author of several books on self-driven children, returns to share insights on his new workbook for parents. He highlights the alarming rise of anxiety and depression among teens, linking it to academic pressures and the need for autonomy. Johnson discusses redefining success beyond academics and fostering resilience through strong parent-child connections. He emphasizes nurturing emotional regulation in parents to better support their children and explores the healing power of laughter in building connections.
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Youth Mental Health Crisis
- The US Surgeon General called the adolescent mental health crisis the defining public health crisis of our time.
- Younger children are developing anxiety and depression at alarming rates, leading to hospitalizations for suicidal thoughts.
Redefining Success
- A narrow definition of success, focused solely on academic achievement, contributes to anxiety and depression in young people.
- True happiness encompasses more than just external achievements.
The Parent as a Consultant
- Parents should act as consultants, offering guidance and support without rescuing their children from challenges.
- Allowing children to struggle helps them develop essential skills like stress tolerance and problem-solving.
