The Kink Consultant

In this episode, I sit down with my Business Manager and friend, Brenda, to unpack my dating life—and trust me, there’s plenty to talk about! We dive into my adventures navigating the modern dating world, from the hilarious chaos of my first date at a Target Starbucks, to the highs and lows of finding meaningful connections today.  We also explore the nuances of kinky dating, offer advice for those stepping into it, and tackle some fantastic listener questions. From the best dating apps, subtle ways to signal your preferences, and so much more.  Whether you’re here for the laughs, the insights, or just a behind-the-scenes peek at my dating life, this episode has something for you. So grab your headphones and join us for an honest, lighthearted conversation about all things dating!     Episode Highlights   02:08 Target Guy: The Front Runner  11:04 Deep Conversations and Future Plans  19:17 Navigating Modern Dating: First Date Reflections  23:59 The Kink Factor: Dating Apps and Preferences     Download the BeeDee App and use the code: THEKINKCONSULTANT  Head http://www.beedee.com get 50% off your first month of premium by using this code!     Go to http://www.meetkinksters.com/TKC and you can get 50%off your first month of premium membership!         Connect with Me:   https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant  https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/     Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  Book your consultation here. 

In this episode, I had an absolute blast chatting with the amazing Pup Locrian. We dove into all things puppy play, its rich history and how it's different from the furry community.   Pup Locrian shared some super cool insights on what it means to be a puppy, the gear involved, and even the physical workout it can be! We laughed about treats and toys, and talked about how to find your local puppy community. We also touched on the joys of puppy conventions and competitions. Whether you're a curious newbie or a seasoned player, there's something for everyone.  So grab your headphones and join us for a fun and informative conversation that's sure to get your tail wagging!    Episode Highlights  01:29 Understanding Pup Play  03:52 Pup Play vs. Furries  11:29 Personal Journey into Kink and Pup Play  24:41 Discovering the Joy of Puppy Play  32:10 Finding Your Local Puppy Community  41:46 Resources and Recommendations    Connect with Pup Locrian:   https://www.instagram.com/pup_locrian/  https://www.tiktok.com/@locrian_pup  puplocrian@gmail.com    Resources Mentioned:   https://www.pupplay.info/  https://ashleykahurangi.com/book-writing/canis-major/  Puppy Play by Tosa Alphainu    Connect with Me:   https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant  https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/    Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  Book your consultation here. 

Catherine Drysdale, a sex and relationship coach and master's student in clinical psychology, shares her personal journey and passion for sexual wellness. She discusses the hurdles of social media censorship impacting the sex-positive community. Catherine reveals innovative workshops, including guided masturbation sessions, aimed at overcoming pleasure blocks. The conversation highlights her use of NLP techniques and the importance of creating safe spaces for self-exploration, intimacy, and embracing one’s sexuality. It's a candid look into fostering joy and connection in our sexual lives.

Join Larah Sky, a dynamic content creator and prominent voice in the kink community, as she shares her journey from viral sensation to trusted influencer. She dives into the intriguing world of Locktober and chastity cages, offering seasoned insights on boundaries and self-exploration. Larah's humorous take on internet trolls and infamous spit videos adds a unique twist. Learn about diverse kinks from foot fetishes to feminization, and get practical advice for safely embracing your desires while fostering deeper connections.

In this engaging discussion, Brad Jones, founder of Meet Kinksters, shares his vision for a dating app designed exclusively for the kink community. He reveals how the app prioritizes sexual and romantic compatibility, aiming to build authentic relationships. Brad tackles the flaws of traditional dating apps and the dark side of the industry, offering candid advice for creating attractive profiles. His insights encourage openness, safety, and a respectful environment for users seeking genuine connections, leaving listeners inspired to redefine their dating lives.

Jana Wimer, the daring director of 'Abandon', and Robert Bullwinkel, an innovative producer with a passion for kink themes, dive deep into their theatrical creation. They discuss the show's connections to the Marquis de Sade, exploring themes of horror and sexuality. The duo shares the challenges of promoting a kink-centric story and the profound support from the kink community. Their unique immersive experience blurs the lines between fear and desire, leaving audiences breathless. Buckle up for a theatrical journey unlike any other!

I’m beyond excited to have Pieter and Paul, the brilliant minds behind the groundbreaking BDSM dating app, BeeDee. We'll dive deep into how the app uses your BDSM test results to algorithmically connect you with compatible kinksters. We'll explore their unique approach to creating genuine and meaningful connections within the BDSM community, and how they overcame challenges to bring this revolutionary app to life.  You'll also get an insider's look at the incredible features that set BeeDee apart from other dating platforms, including higher-quality matches and community-focused interactions. Plus, there's a special offer just for our listeners that you won't want to miss. Tune in to discover how BeeDee is transforming the way kinksters find love and companionship. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one!    Episode Highlights   02:36 The Evolution of the BDSM Test  12:01 Exploring the BD App Features  24:37 Challenges with iOS Approval  28:34 Team and Community Focus  36:00 Addressing Rumors and Anonymity  40:38 Advice for Newbies in BDSM  43:50 Future Features and User Interaction    Download the BeeDee App and use the code: THEKINKCONSULTANT  Head over to the Android Play Store and get 50% off your first month of premium by using this code!     Help us get BeeDee on iOS! Sign the petition here:   https://www.change.org/p/approve-the-beedee-dating-app-in-the-apple-app-store    Know more about the app at:   http://www.beedee.com      Connect with Me:   https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant  https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/    Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  Book your consultation here. 

Join Veronica and Jim as they share their thrilling journey from vanilla life to the vibrant BDSM community. They recount hilarious party tales, including a Fireball debacle and unforgettable mishaps with friends. Learn the crucial do's and don'ts of BDSM practices, the importance of consent, and their unique roles as community leaders. Get practical advice for newcomers navigating the kink scene and discover the significance of creating safe spaces for exploration while having a blast!

Dive into the intriguing world of spanking, where personal journeys and societal perceptions collide. Discover the guest's early experiences and how they turned a misunderstood kink into a platform for connection. Hear wild stories, including a stalker encounter and nostalgic reflections on 80s fetish culture. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, consent, and communication in the kink community. Explore how embracing your desires can lead to genuine self-acceptance and deeper connections with others.

Discover the ins and outs of being a professional dominatrix as financial questions are boldly addressed. The host shares unforgettable stories highlighting the vibrant dynamics of the BDSM community and emphasizes the essential role of trust in client interactions. Get insights on setting boundaries, negotiating, and the often-unwritten rules of dungeon conduct. This exploration of intimacy and connection proves valuable both in and out of the kink scene!