The Kink Consultant

Ep 24 - Redefining Real Intimacy: How Make Love Not Porn is Changing the Conversation

Apr 2, 2025

Saniyyah Lateef

Saniyyah Lateef, a curator for Make Love Not Porn and a passionate sex educator, discusses the transformative power of realistic intimacy in adult content. She explains how MLNP challenges stereotypes found in mainstream porn by showcasing authentic, consensual experiences. Saniyyah emphasizes the importance of comprehensive sex education and teaching consent from a young age. Listeners will also learn about the roles curators play in maintaining ethical standards and how MLNP fosters a safe space for diverse sexual expressions.

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INSIGHT

Real Sex As Social Community

Make Love Not Porn is a user-generated platform showcasing authentic, unscripted real-world sex.
The site creates a social-media-like community that centers real couples and members, not performers.

INSIGHT

Real Sex Is Diverse, Not One-Size-Fits-All

Real-world sex varies widely from sensual to kinky and doesn't always match mainstream porn tropes.
MLNP showcases that everyday sex can be gentle, kinky, messy, or ordinary — and that's valuable representation.

ANECDOTE

Couple Uses Position Cards After Yoga

A new couple filmed themselves trying sex-position cards after starting with sensual stretching and yoga.
Saniyyah loved the novelty and how they prepared for trying new positions together.

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Porn is reshaping how we view intimacy, and Make Love Not Porn is leading the charge. In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit down with Saniyyah Lateef, a curator for MLNP, to discuss how the platform is redefining adult content by showcasing real-world sex—authentic, unscripted, and deeply connected. We dive into how MLNP challenges mainstream porn stereotypes, promotes sex-positive representation, and ensures every submission prioritizes consent and authenticity.

Saniyyah shares what it means to be an MLNP Star, how curators maintain ethical standards, and why realistic depictions of intimacy matter in a world oversaturated with performative pleasure. We also unpack the impact of ethical adult content on relationships, self-image, and sexual empowerment.

If you’re searching for porn alternatives, curious about other types of adult content, or want to explore how real people are reclaiming their pleasure, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for a candid, sex-positive conversation that just might change the way you think about intimacy.

Episode Highlights:

00:27 What is Make Love Not Porn?

04:16 Curator's Role and Responsibilities

16:57 The Importance of Sex Education

20:59 Consent and Safe Practices

21:59 Teaching Boundaries to Children

23:08 The Importance of Comprehensive Sex Education

23:52 Make Love Not Porn: User Engagement and Trends

24:40 Astrology and Sexual Activity Insights

28:21 Community and Privacy in Make Love Not Porn

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