Living Well (or Trying To) with Janet

Let’s be real—modern dating can feel like a chaotic mess of apps, mixed signals, and awkward coffee chats. In this episode, I sit down with dating coach and podcast host Yue Xu (Dateable podcast) to unpack how building a friendship first might be the most underrated—and powerful—strategy in love. We talk about why so many of us perform on dates, how to tell if you actually like the person or just the date activity, and what it means to connect with someone as a human before labeling it romantic. We also talk about the 5 Dating Archetypes - The Maverick, The Achiever, The Thinker, The Energizer, and The Dreamer - which are you? Whether you’re swiping, reconnecting with an old flame, or just trying to feel less weird on first dates, this one’s for you. Catch part one of this conversation in Episode 42: The 30-Day Relationship Incubator: Reimagining Modern Dating with Yue Xu. Yue’s new book ⁠How to Be Dateable Follow/Subscribe to “Living Well (or Trying To) with Janet” on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube or wherever you get your pods! For more, follow ⁠⁠@janetdoubleu⁠⁠ Partners: ⁠⁠BetterHelp⁠⁠ - 10% off your first month with code “LWJ” ⁠⁠Pique Life⁠⁠ - 15% off + free Starter Kit (rechargeable frother & glass beaker) on subscriptions $100+ ⁠⁠Natural Pilates TV⁠⁠ - Mat Pilates access with a 7 day free trial and then one free month Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dating in 2025? Whew. It’s a whole thing. From app fatigue to ghosting to unsolicited advice from well-meaning friends—how do you actually date well these days, especially if you're emotionally exhausted but still believe in love? This week on Living Well (or Trying To), I sit down with Yue Xu, LA-based dating expert and co-host of the Dateable podcast, to talk about her personal approach to finding love after heartbreak. We get into everything from “energy work” and Tai Chi grandmas to Yue’s concept of a “30-day relationship incubator” and why intentionality and privacy can radically transform how we date. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this one’s for anyone navigating relationships while trying to stay sane and grounded. ✨ Mentioned in this episode: Yue’s new book How to Be Dateable Earth vs. cosmic energy (and why you want both) The love crisis no one’s talking about—but everyone’s feeling What’s your current dating energy? Let’s talk about it. Follow/Subscribe to “Living Well (or Trying To) with Janet” on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube or wherever you get your pods! For more, follow ⁠@janetdoubleu⁠ Partners: ⁠BetterHelp⁠ - 10% off your first month with code “LWJ” ⁠Pique Life⁠ - 15% off + free Starter Kit (rechargeable frother & glass beaker) on subscriptions $100+ ⁠Natural Pilates TV⁠ - Mat Pilatess access with a 7 day free trial and then one free month Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After a long-ish pause, I’m back—still living well (or trying to). In this solo episode, I reflect on how life has been after the AsianBossGirl podcast, what rest has looked like lately (spoiler: not just bed-rotting, but also some messy growth), and how I’m redefining wellness for this next chapter. I talk about the challenges of staying creative when you're burnt out, why I resisted "doing nothing," and what listeners can expect from my reimagined show. If you’ve ever struggled with slowing down, shifting gears, or giving yourself permission to pause, this one’s for you. Follow/Subscribe to “Living Well (or Trying To) with Janet” on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube or wherever you get your pods! For more, follow @janetdoubleu Partners: BetterHelp - 10% off your first month with code “LWJ” Pique Life - 15% off + free Starter Kit (rechargeable frother & glass beaker) on subscriptions $100+ Natural Pilates TV - Mat Pilatess access with a 7 day free trial and then one free month Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Living Well (or trying to) with Janet which will be relaunching in May!  A couple of new things, it will now be on video 😲 tempered expectations though, I’m a 1 WOman team now. And will continue to be a combo of solo and guest conversations - I share more in the 1st episode dropping on May 6 - so be sure to head to Living Well (or trying to) with Janet on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YT at janetdoubleu - that’s Janet the word double and the letter u - follow/subscribe and tune in! —— And without further ado, here is the trailer for the relaunch of my podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Living Well (or trying to) with Janet which will be relaunching in May!  A couple of new things, it will now be on video 😲 tempered expectations though, I’m a 1 WOman team now. And will continue to be a combo of solo and guest conversations - I share more in the 1st episode dropping on May 6 - so be sure to head to Living Well (or trying to) with Janet on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YT at janetdoubleu - that’s Janet the word double and the letter u - follow/subscribe and tune in! —— And without further ado, here is the trailer for the relaunch of my podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this enlightening discussion, Dr. Paria Vaziri, a naturopathic doctor specializing in hormonal and gut health, shares her personal journey from health struggles to wellness advocacy. She uncovers the secrets of detecting hormone imbalances and the pivotal role of nutrition and lifestyle in achieving balance. Discover the significance of magnesium and the importance of high-quality supplements. Dr. Vaziri also discusses how gut health influences hormonal regulation, stress management, and mental well-being, providing practical tips for a healthier life.

I recently went through a breakup, again. Heartbreak is never easy, and when you're dating with the intention to find your life partner while trying to beat a biological clock, it involves a new level of hurt, grief, and sense of urgency to move on. How do we know when we've healed? How do we approach asking for support from friends and family? How can we focus on hope when all we want to do is be angry and negative? I talk about all of this and more in this episode.Be sure to follow/subscribe to this new feed to be updated when new episodes release!__________________________________________Host: Janet WangEditor: Victoria Cheng__________________________________________P A R T N E R S• Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns at Quince.com/abg• BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG__________________________________________C O N N E C T W I T H U S• Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook• Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here• Email: hello@asianbossgirl.com__________________________________________S U P P O R T U S• Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com• Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support• More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How can I keep my skin barrier healthy during cold months? Should I wear sunscreen even when I don’t get sun exposure? What do I do about frizzy hair - thoughts on gummies and supplements? I’ve invited Dr. Joyce Park, otherwise known as Tea with MD (@teawithmd) to answer these questions and more. She is a board-certified dermatologist based in Washington, founder of Skin Refinery, a virtual dermatology clinic, and a skincare and beauty content creator at Tea with MD. She attended college and medical school at Stanford University, and completed her dermatology residency at NYU. During medical school, she completed the Stanford-NBC News Global Health Media Fellowship, working in the communications office of the World Health Organization in Switzerland and as part of the medical unit at NBC News. She is a skincare media expert and has been featured in Forbes, Good Morning America, Allure, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Huffington Post, Time, Marie Claire, the Gloss Angeles Podcast, and more.Become an ABG Bestie to get new audio episodes ad-free, monthly “Dear ABG” AMA sessions, discounts on merch, and shout-outs in our episodes. https://abg.supercast.com/ __________________________________________Host: Janet WangEditor: Victoria Cheng__________________________________________P A R T N E R S• BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG__________________________________________C O N N E C T W I T H U S• Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook• Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here• Email: hello@asianbossgirl.com__________________________________________S U P P O R T U S• Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com• Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support• More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One of the biggest challengers to living in the present moment are digital distractions. The advancement of consumer technology has resulted in a lot of habits and behaviors that are detrimental to our health - negative effects on our brains, our ability to focus, our ideas about ourselves, and the quality of our social skills and relationships which have resulted in a loneliness epidemic.In this episode, I chat with Palak Dave, Founder and CEO of Embiria – a movement and membership community designed to help people slow down and savor life, about this very issue. Through Embiria, she promotes intentional living, urging you to prioritize real-life experiences and connection over digital noise. She is also a speaker, investor, and author of the newly released book Beautiful Everydays: A Guide to Living in the Here and Now. We also chat about her previous career as an award-winning marketer in corporate settings, making the shift to entrepreneurship, being a woman of color and child of immigrants, and her perspective on work-life balance as an entrepreneur in the wellness space.Become an ABG Bestie to get new audio episodes ad-free, monthly “Dear ABG” AMA sessions, discounts on merch, and shout-outs in our episodes. https://abg.supercast.com/ __________________________________________Host: Janet WangEditor: Victoria Cheng__________________________________________P A R T N E R S• Wild: Use code “ABG20” for 20% off your first order at WeAreWild.com/US • BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG__________________________________________C O N N E C T W I T H U S• Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook• Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here• Email: hello@asianbossgirl.com__________________________________________S U P P O R T U S• Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com• Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support• More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Turning 39 prompts deep reflections on personal growth and the challenges of midlife. The host shares transformative insights on embracing change, heartbreak, and entrepreneurship. Nature and movement, like beach visits and yoga, emerge as powerful tools for healing. Rituals and emotional resilience take center stage in navigating life’s ups and downs. As the big 4-0 approaches, the importance of self-acceptance and finding joy shines through, encouraging a lighter perspective amidst societal pressures.