Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes
You’re tired.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Episodes
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Feb 17, 2025 • 24min
Peace that Disrupts: Calm Your Storm | 456
The host shares a heartfelt story about a family vacation to a water park, emphasizing a child's triumph over fear. Through introspection, the speaker connects their own anxiety to the child's joy. They explore Jesus' comforting words, reflecting on how faith offers peace in uncertainty. Biblical scripture is used to illuminate the difference between lasting divine peace and temporary worldly solutions. Personal experiences of battling depression highlight the importance of finding solace in scripture amidst life's storms.
Feb 10, 2025 • 29min
Chris Hilken - Morality of God in the Old Testament - Part 3 | 455
Chris Hilken, an Old Testament expert, dives deep into the challenging moral questions surrounding God's character in the Old Testament. He tackles the controversial topic of divine commands for destruction, arguing that these narratives reflect deeper moral purposes beyond their literal interpretations. Hilken highlights the importance of historical context, emphasizing that God's actions stem from a place of love and protection. The discussion invites listeners to re-evaluate their understanding of divine morality, justice, and human suffering.
Feb 3, 2025 • 25min
The Stewardship God Is Watching | 454
Explore the principles of biblical stewardship and how it calls for wise management of resources for God’s glory. Discover the New Testament's insights on diligence in handling the gospel and the importance of faithfulness. Learn how family leadership plays a pivotal role in stewardship, emphasizing the dangers of neglecting spiritual engagement. The discussion draws from the story of the Apostle John, encouraging active involvement in nurturing the next generation.
Jan 27, 2025 • 36min
Chris Hilken - Morality of God in the Old Testament - Part 2 | 453
Pastor Chris Hilken, a guide in tackling intricate theological issues, dives deep into the morality of God in the Old Testament. He contrasts the portrayals of God in both Testaments, shedding light on misconceptions and the nature of divine justice versus mercy. The discussion also delves into biblical slavery, emphasizing its complexities and protective laws, while critiquing historical misinterpretations. Ultimately, Chris highlights how servanthood relates to God’s love and the importance of understanding scripture through a lens of compassion and equality.
Jan 20, 2025 • 34min
Chris Hilken - Morality of God in the Old Testament - Part 1 | 452
Chris Hilken, a thoughtful pastor and faith leader, dives into the complex morality of God in the Old Testament. He tackles critiques from figures like Richard Dawkins and shares personal faith struggles. Listeners hear about a pivotal high school confrontation over biblical texts that sparked deeper reflection. He also offers guidance on interpreting scripture, emphasizing the importance of context and a Christ-centered approach to understanding Old Testament narratives. This engaging discussion helps unify faith with family life.
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Jan 13, 2025 • 41min
Patrick Miller - Joyful Outsiders: Living for Christ| 451
Patrick Miller, author of 'Joyful Outsiders', dives into the importance of finding joy and purpose in a faith that often feels sidelined. He discusses the blessings of embracing an outsider identity, especially for fathers. The conversation navigates the tension between faith and society, offering strategies for engaging in divisive discussions with wisdom. Miller also emphasizes the role of art in advocating for justice and morality, while encouraging individuals to nurture their gifts and foster community support.
Jan 6, 2025 • 23min
Kaleb Allen: Prayer, Perseverance,and New Year Spiritual Reset| 450
Discover the power of prayer through Elijah's unwavering faith and persistence. Hear stories that illustrate the importance of establishing spiritual routines, especially after the holiday hustle. Learn how intentional prayer can transform lives and environments, as exemplified by biblical figures. Explore practical tools, like the Dwell Bible app, to integrate scripture into daily life. This journey emphasizes that it's never too late to deepen your connection with God through fervent prayer.
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Dec 30, 2024 • 49min
Learning Grief with Hope- John Onwuchekwa | 449
In this engaging discussion, John Onwuchekwa, a pastor and author, opens up about his profound journey through grief, including the losses he faced with his brother and struggles with infertility. He shares practical insights on coping with grief, emphasizing the importance of personal emotions and the power of community. The conversation also touches on navigating faith and mental health, revealing the vital role of friendship during tough times, and reimagining church community for deeper connections.
Dec 23, 2024 • 42min
The Kinsman Journal's Mission with Peter Ostpako | 448
In this lively discussion, Peter Ostapko, founder and publisher of Kinsman Journal, shares his journey from corporate life to nurturing a nonprofit focused on fatherhood and faith. He emphasizes the power of authentic storytelling and community connections over digital interactions. Peter critiques traditional church models, advocating for vulnerability and grace in spiritual discussions. He also highlights the importance of genuine relationships among men and offers practical tools to foster personal resilience, emphasizing that strong local ties can lead to profound transformations.
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Dec 16, 2024 • 20min
Daniel and Conviction: Living What You Believe| 447
This podcast dives into the inspiring story of Daniel, showcasing his steadfast commitment to prayer amid peril. It highlights how personal convictions can empower us, even in tough times. Listeners are encouraged to develop their own faith resolutions and cultivate a meaningful prayer life. The discussion also touches on the importance of living intentionally, drawing from the life of Jonathan Edwards, urging everyone to pursue purpose and discipline in their spiritual journey.
