In this insightful discussion, Gabe Lyons, author and speaker known for his work on marriage and cultural engagement, shares his wisdom from 28 years of experience. He emphasizes the transformative power of radical honesty in relationships and the importance of a 'no secrets' policy for deeper intimacy. Topics include overcoming emotional disconnection, the healing journey after infidelity, and how intentional communication can strengthen marriage. Gabe's insights on navigating parenting challenges, especially with special needs, provide valuable guidance for couples seeking to thrive together.
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Marriage as Healing Path
Marriage can be a path to healing when couples choose to turn towards each other through trauma.
Love through your spouse reflects God's love and aids in overcoming personal wounds.
insights INSIGHT
Fighting for Marriage Creates Intimacy
Choosing to fight for your marriage through hard times creates deeper intimacy than avoiding pain.
Healing requires honesty about origin stories and owning personal parts without blame.
question_answer ANECDOTE
Best Date: Fully Known and Loved
Jerrad experienced his best date being a simple dinner fully known and still loved by his wife.
Feeling fully known and loved offers a glimpse of God's love in marriage.
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In 'Fight for Us: Win Back the Marriage God Intends for You', Chad Robichaux shares practical advice and personal anecdotes to help couples navigate the challenges of marriage. Drawing from his own experiences and biblical teachings, Robichaux provides strategies for communication, conflict resolution, and rebuilding a strong, God-centered marriage.
Love & Respect
The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
Emerson Eggerichs
In 'Love & Respect,' Dr. Emerson Eggerichs argues that the primary emotional needs for men and women are different: men need respect, while women need love. The book introduces the concepts of the 'Crazy Cycle' and the 'Energizing Cycle' to explain how negative and positive communication patterns can impact a marriage. Eggerichs provides practical tips and exercises to help couples break down communication barriers, handle conflict, and foster a deeper love and respect for each other. The book is based on over three decades of counseling and research, and it aims to help couples achieve a more fulfilling and biblically grounded relationship.
What if your marriage wasn’t just surviving—but actually healing you?
In this powerful episode, Jerrad sits down with author and speaker Gabe Lyons (The Fight for Us) to talk about the real work of building a thriving marriage—especially when life throws curveballs like special needs parenting, trauma, and unspoken pain.
They unpack:
The power of radical honesty (and why most couples never get there)
How to stop nursing wounds in silence and start creating real intimacy
Why “no secrets” might be the most life-changing marriage rule
What to do when you feel emotionally disconnected
How confession and emotional leadership can radically change your marriage and parenting
If you’ve ever felt stuck in your marriage or unsure how to lead your family spiritually—this conversation is for you.
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