Dad Tired Why Being a Good Dad Isn’t Enough | Shane Winnings Ep. 472
Jun 9, 2025
Shane Winnings, a former army officer and police officer, leads the national men's ministry Promise Keepers, focusing on godly masculinity. In a candid discussion, he shares the struggle of wanting to be a good dad but feeling inadequate. They delve into the impact of father wounds, the importance of genuine presence over mere proximity, and how the 'Make Dads Great Again' movement is resonating with Gen Z. Shane emphasizes that true fulfillment in fatherhood requires emotional engagement, challenging outdated narratives around masculinity.
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Gen Z Men Reviving Church
- Gen Z men are leading increased church attendance and seeking masculine faith.
- They gravitate to messages embracing masculinity amidst cultural narratives of toxicity.
True Presence Over Proximity
- Being a good dad requires more than just intent; it demands true engagement and presence with your children.
- Emotional presence outweighs mere physical proximity in fatherhood.
Father Wounds Fueling Fatherhood
- Jerrad Lopes felt motivated to be a great dad because of the absence of his own engaged father.
- His father wounds fueled his desire to provide what he missed for his kids.