
Coaching Culture
A podcast for leaders and coaches sharing practical strategies and tools to build your team's culture and help you grow as a leader. Co-hosted by J.P. Nerbun and Nate Sanderson of TOC Culture Consulting, and Betsy Butterick. Get the podcast notes and learn more about us at tocculture.com
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Sep 22, 2024 • 46min
Episode 367: Validation: Managing Big Emotions Through Active Listening
In this episode, we explore effective communication techniques that foster connection and understanding, particularly in challenging conversations. The episode emphasizes the importance of building bridges through emotional validation in both coaching and personal relationships, providing listeners with valuable insights on how to improve their own communication skills. Tune In wherever you get your podcasts.
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Sep 15, 2024 • 37min
Episode 366: Transforming Coaching: CJ Stewart's Trauma-Informed Approach to Leadership in Sports
In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, hosts JP Nerbun and Nate Sanderson welcome back CJ Stewart. The discussion centers around the concept of accountability in coaching, emphasizing the importance of maintaining high standards while adopting a trauma-informed approach. CJ shares insights from his experiences, highlighting how research and science inform their coaching methods at LEAD. He also introduces his framework for supporting athletes, offering valuable takeaways for coaches across all sports. Tune in to discover how to elevate your coaching practices and build a positive culture within your team.
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Sep 8, 2024 • 36min
Episode 365: From the Field to Life: Core Values and Coaching Young Black Athletes
In this Coaching Culture Podcast episode featuring CJ Stewart, a former professional baseball player and founder of the LEAD organization, the discussion centers around the critical role of values in coaching young Black men. CJ emphasizes that while talent and opportunity are essential, they are not sufficient for long-term success. Instead, a strong value system is crucial for personal and professional development.
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Sep 1, 2024 • 45min
Episode 364: Strategies for Coaching Your Team vs Individual Players
Exploring the concept of coaching your team versus coaching individual players, JP, Nate & Betsy reflect on a phrase from an interview with Shaka Smart, head men's basketball coach at Marquette University. They discuss the distinction between team and player coaching, pondering how the two intersect when it comes to team culture. Drawing insights from their conversation, they delve into the importance of recognizing both aspects in fostering a cohesive and successful team dynamic.
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Aug 25, 2024 • 35min
Episode 363: Shaka Smart on How to Grow through Losing and Knowing What’s Enough Part 2
Shaka Smart, the head coach at Marquette University, shares his insights on overcoming challenges like losing and self-doubt. He emphasizes the importance of mindset and personal disciplines, including journaling. Smart discusses the dual nature of coaching, highlighting both coaches' and athletes' humanity while promoting a growth mindset. He addresses the emotional impact of losses and the significance of self-compassion, drawing inspiration from Kobe Bryant. This conversation is rich with valuable lessons on leadership and team dynamics.

Aug 18, 2024 • 34min
Episode 362: Shaka Smart on Coaching Identity, Team Culture Time, and the Importance of Morning Routines
Shaka Smart, the head coach at Marquette University, shares insights from his dynamic coaching journey. He highlights the impact of his single mother's values on his leadership style, emphasizing love and relationships. Shaka discusses his transition from athlete to coach, focusing on team culture and personal growth. He also delves into the importance of morning routines for effective leadership and explores executive coaching as a vital tool for development. Listeners will find his approach to control and mindfulness fascinating!

Aug 11, 2024 • 43min
Episode 361: Advice for New Coaches Part 2: A Coach’s Guide to Referees, Social Media, and Self-Care
In this episode, we dive into common complaints coaches have about their players, such as arguing with referees, social media habits, and self-care practices. We reflect on how coaches themselves handle these aspects, emphasizing the importance of leading by example. Whether you're a new coach or experienced, this discussion on referees, social media, and self-care offers valuable insights to help you grow as a leader and cultivate a positive team culture.
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Aug 4, 2024 • 35min
Episode 360: Advice for New Coaches Part 1: A Coach's Guide to Playing Time, Conflict, and Parental Relationships
In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, JP Nerbun, along with co-hosts Betsy Butterick and Nate Sanderson, dive into essential advice for new head coaches. Reflecting on what we wish we knew in our first year of coaching, we cover three critical topics: playing time, team conflict, and sports parents. Much of this advice is valuable for all coaches, not just new ones.
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Jul 28, 2024 • 31min
Episode 359: Unpacking Navy SEAL Leadership: Lessons for Coaches - Jonathan Cleck Part 2
This episode delves into the importance of after action reviews (AARs) in achieving success. Emphasizing the significance of intentional and committed reflection, the discussion parallels AARs to daily routines highlighting their essential yet often overlooked role in growth and development. The upcoming segment with former Navy SEAL Jon Cleck promises to explore the unique leadership and teamwork principles behind the Navy SEALs, with a focus on the foundational practice of after action reviews.
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Jul 21, 2024 • 34min
358 Jon Cleck: Building Teams & Mental Toughness- Lessons from Navy SEALs Selection Process
Jonathan Cleck, a former Navy SEAL, FBI task force member, and federal air marshal, shares gripping insights on the demanding BUD/S training that shapes elite soldiers. He highlights the significance of mental toughness and teamwork in overcoming intense challenges. Cleck discusses how shared struggles foster camaraderie and effective leadership, with practical advice for coaches to enhance team dynamics. He also addresses the importance of emotional management in training, contrasting it with traditional approaches to create supportive environments for growth.