

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attachment Coach helping you transform the way you experience love by teaching you the ins and outs of your attachment style in a practical and relatable way.
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
Mentioned books

Oct 27, 2022 • 54min
Honoring Your Anxious Attachment Style and Creating More Security with Chris Rackliffe
Today's guest is Chris Rackliffe. Chris is an author and Anxious Attachment Coach who shares his personal story, wisdom, and tips to guiding anxious attachers into more joy and fulfillment.
Book: It’s Good To See Me Again
Tiktok: @crackliffe
Instagram: @crackliffe
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 18, 2022 • 20min
Benefits of Dating Each Attachment Style
My Secure Self E-Course
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 8, 2022 • 15min
How Attachment Styles Cope With Relationship Anxiety (Activating & Deactivating Strategies)
In this episode, I talk about how the insecure attachment styles (anxious, dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant) cope with relationship anxiety.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 1, 2022 • 18min
How To Reverse The “Caretaker Role” (for anxious and fearful avoidant attachments)
In this episode, I talk about how (and why) anxious and fearful avoidant attachments identify as “caretaker”, “savior” and/or “fixer” in their relationships and how to shift these roles in order to promote more balanced relationships.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

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Sep 21, 2022 • 1h 8min
The Feminine and Masculine Polarity of Attachment Styles with Natalie Kennedy
In this talk, Natalie Kennedy, a Relationship Anxiety Coach and founder of Anxious Love Coach, shares her insights on relationship anxiety drawn from personal experience and training. She discusses the multidimensionality of attachment styles, emphasizing the importance of balancing feminine and masculine energies in relationships. Listeners gain practical strategies for managing relationship anxiety and fostering open communication about personal needs. Natalie also invites a deeper understanding of self-acceptance and the journey toward emotional empowerment.

Sep 14, 2022 • 1h 1min
Owning Your Anxious Attachment Style with Rikki Cloos
In this episode, writer and content creator behind @anxiousheartsguide, Rikki Cloos, shares the healing power of owning your anxious attachment style. She also gives tons of helpful insights and tips on how to become more securely attached yourself.
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Rikki Cloos: Instagram @anxiousheartsguide
Book: The Anxious Hearts Guide
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 8, 2022 • 52min
How To Soothe Your Anxiety with Gabrielle Gonzalez, LMFT
In this episode, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist + Mindfulness Expert Gabrielle Gonzalez shares her challenges with having an Anxious Attachment Style and how self-soothing has helped her cultivate more security within herself and her relationships. Gabrielle shares the benefits of emotional regulation on the brain overt time, as well as some quick tips and strategies for all attachment styles to use when they're feeling anxious.
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Gabrielle Contact: ggonzalez@mindfulrevampinc.com
Website: https://www.mindfulrevampinc.com
Instagram: @gabriellerosegonzalez
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find Jessica:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 1, 2022 • 55min
How We Restored Our Fearful Avoidant Mother/Daughter Relationship with Jessica and Denise Da Silva
My goal with this podcast is to give you guys an inside look into my relationship with my mother. If you’ve been listening for a while, you know my mom has played a huge role in my prior fearful avoidant attachment style. Even though we have our rough patches till this day, we’ve both learned to become more secure in our own ways, thus helping us maintain our relationship.
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Aug 23, 2022 • 1h 1min
How Each Attachment Style Manages Financial Insecurity Within Relationships With Ed Coambs
In this episode, Ed Coambs, a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Financial Therapist & Planner, talks about how each attachment style experiences financial anxiety within a relationship and insights on how to approach it in healthier, secure ways.
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Find Ed Here:
Website:
www.healthyloveandmoney.com
Book:
The Healthy Love & Money Way: How The Four Attachment Styles Impact Your Financial Well-Being.
Course:
The Couples Guide to Financial Intimacy
Instagram: @healthyloveandmoney
https://www.instagram.com/healthyloveandmoney/
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Aug 16, 2022 • 1h 20min
Healing My Avoidant Attachment Wounds with Ren Russ
In this episode, guest speaker Ren Russ talks about her challenges in dating and relationships with having an avoidant attachment style. Ren speaks to the complexities and the multidimensional nature of our attachment style(s). If you’re ready to understand the fears that drive the avoidant’s behaviors and how to become more secure, definitely tune into this conversation.
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Ren Russ Contact: neonphoenixinc@gmail.com
Instagram: @blondelobotomy
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com