

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
I’m Jessica Da Silva—a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Attachment Coach, and author—here to help you transform the way you experience love through practical, relatable insight. Along with breaking down attachment styles in an easy-to-understand way, I share my own personal journey of moving toward secure attachment, real client stories, conversations with guest experts, and tools you can use to heal and create healthier relationships.
Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
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Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
Mentioned books

Oct 26, 2023 • 22min
How Each Attachment Style Experiences 5 Stages of a Relationship
Learn about how each attachment style moves through the 5 relationship stages. This episode focuses highly on the insecure attachment styles (anxious, dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant).
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Coach with me: jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 10, 2023 • 50min
Normalizing “The Icks” in Dating and Relationships with Kelsey Wonderlin
Today on the podcast, we have Kelsey Wonderlin. Kelsey is a licensed therapist and a dating and relationship coach. She helps women who struggle with anxiety attract & HOLD ONTO a healthy relationship. She is also passionate about debunking the myths many of us have been taught about what a healthy relationship looks like.
In this episode, we dive deep into relationship anxiety, the realities of dating, and how to better differentiate what is our insecurity versus what is our truth.
Kelsey Wonderlin: https://coaching.kelseywonderlin.com/
—— Jessica Da Silva: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 2, 2023 • 51min
Navigating a Break-Up As Someone With an Anxious Attachment Style with Alexa (Client Stories)
Today we have a special guest, Alexa. She is a mother, a humanitarian, a leader, a former client of mine, and just a beautiful soul who was willing to come onto the podcast and share her story of navigating love with an anxious attachment style, how understanding attachment theory brought so much clarity to her marriage, the challenges that come with anxious-avoidant relationship dynamics, her grieving process with the recent separation of her marriage and the lessons she has learned through all of it.
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Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 26, 2023 • 12min
Can We Change Our Attachment Style? (The Honest Truth)
In this episode, I share what research says about whether we can actually change our attachment style.
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Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 7, 2023 • 11min
Realities for Insecure Attachers in Relationships
In this episode, I share some hard truths about how insecure attachments (anxious, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant variations) experience relationships in hopes of cultivating more self-acceptance and realistic expectations for themselves and others.
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Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Aug 23, 2023 • 13min
Normalizing Insecurities and Relationship Anxiety
In this episode, I share my experience with relationship anxiety in hopes of normalizing the ebbs and flows that naturally occur in relationships, especially those with insecure attachments.
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Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Aug 15, 2023 • 15min
Why Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Attract Each Other
In this episode, I share why anxious and avoidant attachments are attracted to each other from an attachment lens, and how they can work towards creating a secure bond.
These tips apply for all attachment style dynamics.
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Attachment Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2/

Aug 8, 2023 • 13min
How Understanding Attachment Styles Can Help Your Relationships
Learn how understanding attachment styles can benefit relationships by providing insights into thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Discover the impact of attachment styles on relationships, personal growth, and partner selection. Find out how it facilitates healing after a breakup and attunes to children's emotional needs.

Aug 2, 2023 • 14min
Differences Between Coaching and Therapy
In this episode, I share some major differences between coaching and therapy, in order to help you identify which approach is best for you. I also share why I transitioned from working as a Mental Health Therapist to an Attachment Coach.
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Attachment Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2/

Jun 20, 2023 • 51min
Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Power with Arnie (Client Stories)
What you'll learn…
* The challenges of co-parenting and how to navigate it in a secure way
* The importance of setting boundaries to reclaim your power
* How to identify red flags in a relationship
* Overcoming toxic relationships
* Dating as a single mom
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com


