
LET IT OUT
Long-form conversations with a variety friends and strangers. Guests include musicians, writers, chefs, parents, painters, designers, herbalists, therapists, comedians, and actors. Here they candidly discuss how they spend their days. We cover connection, creativity, productivity, well-being, sex, love, body image, transitions, and more. Sometimes things get deep and philosophical and sometimes they are funny and light because life is both.
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Apr 22, 2023 • 1h 39min
Well-being > Wellness: Christy Harrison on the Care Effect, the Wellness Trap, History of Hysteria & Much More
This week I spoke to Christy Harrison, MPH, RD, who, in addition to being my close friend of over a decade, is someone whose work has significantly impacted me. As a journalist she’s covered food, nutrition, and health for more than 20 years. She's also a clinician working with people as a registered dietitian nutritionist specializing in eating disorders. Her writing has appeared everywhere from New York Times to the Food Network, and she's written two books: 2019's Anti-Diet and her latest, The Wellness Trap. We talked about how she’s handling the praise and criticism of a large platform, what well-being practices she does participate in, and in a clip from an interview I did with her on her new show Rethinking Wellness we talk about how my episode on her first show, Food Psych, where we talked about orthorexia was one of the early influences for this new book. We cover some topics it including the history of the hysteria diagnosis, and much more.Show Notes:- My interview with Christy on well-being > wellness- Find Christy on the Web | Instagram- Christy's podcasts: Rethinking Wellness & Food Psych- Christy's books: The Wellness Trap & Anti-Diet - Sign up for Jésabel's (last week's guest) and my Life Audit Workshop- Find me: @letitouttt or I'm @katiedalebout- The Podcast Kit is 50% off with code SPRING - Our newsletter to get show notes + essays by me, recs, etc.- A few spots in the Creative Clinic: more info here or email me (katie@letitouttt.com) : ) - For book recs, our bookshelf here - and I made a shop with recs ...with shelves for guests - The Let It Out Kits: are self-study workshops for personal growing based on all I've ever learned and am learning. Thanks so much for listening to this podcast. If you liked this episode, try out:Episode 369: Seasons of Overwhelm with Christy Harrison (Part 1)Episode 354: Don't Let It Get You Down with Savala Nolan (Part 1)

Apr 15, 2023 • 1h 10min
Sorry for the Delayed Response: digital organizer Jésabel DC on Overwhelm, Sensitive Time & Prioritization
This week I spoke with Jésabel DC. She runs a digital organization studio where she helps people with anxiety organize their digital lives. I was one of them, which is how we met. We talked about the systems she helped me make, how I've struggled to sustain them, and how I can evolve her systems. With a background in psychology and design, she specializes in turning chaotic digital environments (i.e., inboxes, files, notes, calendars) into playful, functional spaces. She tells how she got into this, and what we can do to feel less overwhelmed with constant correspondence flying at us. She defines anxiety-aware communication, gives advice on managing undefined relationships, prioritizing what matters, friend assistance and more. And if you want to join us for a workshop called the Life Audit, where she and I will combine journaling and organizing to to guide you through both the emotional and practical aspects of life overwhelm. the link is in the shownotes to learn more. : ) Show Notes:- Sign up for Jésabel's Inbox Organization course: use code LETITOUT for $20 off- Jésabel and my Life Audit Workshop- Find me: @letitouttt or I'm @katiedalebout - Find Jésabel & the Lifestyle Lab on the Web | Instagram | her organizational session- SPONSOR This episode is sponsored by Cured Nutrition: get 20% your first order with code letitout- The Podcast Kit is 50% off with code SPRING - Our newsletter to get show notes + essays by me, recs, etc.- A few spots in the Creative Clinic: more info here or email me (katie@letitouttt.com) : ) - For book recs, our bookshelf here - and I made a shop with recs ...with shelves for guests - The Let It Out Kits: are self-study workshops for personal growing based on all I've ever learned and am learning. Thanks so much for listening to this podcast.

Apr 1, 2023 • 1h 37min
Collapsing Timelines with Holisticism's Michelle & Wallis
Michelle and Wallis, hosts of The Twelfth House and Good For U(?) podcasts, talk about the beginning days of Holisticism, expanding the team, and podcasting as a medium. They also discuss regret, string theory, breakups, collapsing timelines, and undefined friendships.

Mar 18, 2023 • 1h 22min
What You Run From Chases You with Danielle LaPorte
Danielle LaPorte is an author and poet living in Vancouver, Canada. I’ve been reading her books for years and this is her second time on the podcast. She has a way of articulating esoteric concepts in a way that goes down real easy for me, always has. We spoke over zoom a few weeks ago about what she’s been learning lately, self-help exhaustion, how non-duality is a creative act, self forgiveness vs self discipline, having the courage to make what she calls the 11th hour change, and how I discovered her in 2013 and her memory of that day. She quotes Krishnamurti saying “discipline is a tool that numbs the mind,” so we talked about that, our tendency to take on too many projects so we have to stay up late and eat crackers for dinner. We get into her thoughts on what she calls “tyrant time" vs "power time” and more. Her new book is called How to Be Loving, and I especially love her early book The Desire Map. Let us know if you listen.Show Notes:- Find Danielle on the Web | Instagram- Find me: @letitouttt or I'm @katiedalebout- Danielle's membership she mentions when we're talking about her process - SPONSOR This episode is sponsored by Cured Nutrition: get 20% your first order with code letitout- SPONSOR This episode is also sponsored by the Women's Meditation Network: wide selection of podcasts including the one on sleep that I mention- Our newsletter to get show notes + essays by me, recs, etc.- Book store workshop in Highland Park! March 19th: come hang if you're in LA! it's free but RSVP here- SPONSOR Christy Harrison's new podcast: Rethinking Wellness- A few spots in the Creative Clinic: more info here or email me (katie@letitouttt.com) : ) - For book recs, our bookshelf here - and I made a shop with recs ...with shelves for guests - the Let It Out Kits: are self-study workshops for personal growing based on all I've ever learned and am learning. Thanks so much for listening to this podcast. If you liked this episode, try out:-Episode #387 In the Weeds: Herbalist Vanessa Chakour on Our Earthly Bodies

Mar 10, 2023 • 1h 17min
Cale remembers his thoughts: musician Cale Tyson on rehab, recovery & our neighborhood feeling like high school...
Cale Tyson is a musician originally from Texas, now living in my neighborhood in LA. He came by several weeks ago and we talked about our neighborhood feeling like high school, what he was like in high school, self-mythologizing, craving validation in projects (and beyond), and being allergic to earnestness…all before getting into his wild story of how he ended up going to rehab and getting sober last summer. He honestly explains what got him to that point with his trademark combo of self-deprecation and earnest humor. His new book, "Some Memories Are Only Thoughts”, just came out. We talk about that too as well as writing, sharing our work, and cringing at the process of it all. He’s a real gentle, sweet guy who makes me laugh and surprised me with a bunch of wisdom in this. And I surprised him with a few questions from his friends. Let us know if you listen.Show Notes:- Find Cale on the Web | Instagram | Spotify- Photos of Cale by our friend Jacob Boll -Find me: @letitouttt or I'm @katiedalebout- Cale's song he mentioned that plays at the end of this is Not Healthy Anymore- SPONSOR This episode is sponsored by Brooklinen: get $20 off plus free shipping on orders of $100+ with code letitout- Our newsletter to get show notes + essays by me, recs, etc. - Book store workshop in Highland Park! March 19th: come hang if you're in LA! it's free but RSVP here- SPONSOR Christy Harrison's new podcast: Rethinking Wellness- A spots in the Creative Clinic: more info here or email me (katie@letitouttt.com) : ) - For book recs, our bookshelf here - and I made a shop with recs ...with shelves for guests - the Let It Out Kits: are self-study workshops for personal growing based on all I've ever learned and am learning. Thanks so much for listening to this podcast.

Mar 8, 2023 • 1h 16min
The Big Bad Thing: Ryann Bosetti Returns (Part 3/3)
This week is the third and final part of my conversation with hair stylist Ryann Bosetti. If you listened to the last two episodes you know she’s one of my favorite people to talk to so I wasn’t surprised we recorded for over three hours. I broke up that conversation into the last two episodes, where we talked about everything from how she got scouted to model at age 19 to her mystical thoughts on finding love in her late thirties to how she looks at her life through the lens of a fairy tale. If we look at her life from that storybook perspective, then this third episode is the chapter about a big, bad, wild situation that happened to her a few years ago. Recorded on a separate day, in this part Ryann shares the bad thing that happened to her, what she learned from that terrible time, how she healed from the tender spot she was left in, and how she now helps others as a result of her experience. Show Notes:- Listen to part 1 and part 2 of my conversation with Ryann-No sponsor this week--instead please consider supporting the Texas Advocacy Project-In person workshop in Highland Park! March 19th: come if you're in LA! free but RSVP hereRyann's Recs for Hair and beyond Including:-Spirulina for hair growth-B Complex Liquid for growth as well -Shower Water Filter for preventing hair breakage -Nettle Tea for hair growth -Women Who Run With the Wolves (Book she gave me) -More items and buying options of all of items Ryann and I talk about and she recommends are here as well as made a shelf here- Find Ryann on the Web | Instagram- Subscribe to our newsletter to get show notes + essays, etc. sent to your inbox- **My one-on-one CREATIVE CLINIC is open with a few spots left! Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit!**- I made a shop includes shelves for skin care recs, shoes, body, hair care, + more...if you have any questions let me know! - For book recs, shop my Amazon bookshelf- Check out the Let It Out Kits: self-study workshops for personal growth - Follow @letitouttt on Instagram. I'm @katiedalebout- Photo credit: Alex Nataf-Taghizadeh for Unconditional Magazine

Feb 24, 2023 • 1h 46min
Mythic Beauty: Legendary Hairtylist Ryann Bosetti (Part 2/3)
This week is part two of my conversation with hair stylist Ryann Bosetti. So happy she’s back since she’s one of my favorite people to talk to. We recorded for three hours at her studio a few weeks ago. Ryann is incredibly wise, special, mystical, and has sage insight around so many topics, so I’ve broken this up into a few episodes. In this second part, we cover: how she got scouted to model at age 19; how she found hairdressing; hair trends like big hair in the 80s; frequently asked questions about hair trends, health, and growth. Last week in part one, we talked about: power dynamics in the hair world; her mystical thoughts on finding love; on becoming what she calls a “baby elder woman” and how she loves sharing what she’s learned.Show Notes:- Listen to part 1 of my conversation with Ryann from last week- **My one-on-one CREATIVE CLINIC is open with a few spots left! Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit!**Ryann's Recs for Hair and beyond Including:-Spirulina for hair growth-B Complex Liquid for growth as well -Shower Water Filter for preventing hair breakage -Nettle Tea for hair growth -Women Who Run With the Wolves (Book she gave me) -More items and buying options of all of items Ryann and I talk about and she recommends are here as well as made a shelf here- This episode is sponsored by Cured Nutrition: get 20% your first order with code letitout- Find Ryann on the Web | Instagram- Subscribe to our newsletter to get show notes + essays, etc. sent to your inbox- I made a shop includes shelves for skin care recs, shoes, body, hair care, + more...if you have any questions let me know! - For book recs, shop my Amazon bookshelf- Check out the Let It Out Kits: self-study workshops for personal growth - Follow @letitouttt on Instagram. I'm @katiedalebout- I talk about Saturn returns in the following episodes: with Trevor Hall here, with Madi Murphy here, with Aileen Xu here, with Emmalea Russo here, and Victoria Jane (human design) here Topics:-her fairytale backstory, from how she got scouted to model at age 19, left college to move to NYC, London, and Australia, and then returned to finish school and worked in finance in NYC-how she ended up in hair school-anorexia recovering, lingering, and healing-eating disorders within relationships-hair trends like big hair in the 80s -her most frequently asked hair questions on everything from trends, damage, hair health, growth tips-advice for someone wanting to become a hairdresser -why leftovers are so good-being earnest on instagram and how she handles social media in general-her greatest lesson of the last year -how imperfection is part of our perfection & letting go of the need to be fixed-plus I ask questions from our mutual pals including: some previous guests like Kerrilynn Pamer and Crystal Fawn

Feb 18, 2023 • 1h 3min
Mythic Beauty: Legendary Hairstylist Ryann Bosetti on Love, Wisdom from a "Baby Elder Woman" & More (Part 1/3)
This week I speak with hair stylist Ryann Bosetti. She’s one of my favorite people to talk to, so we recorded for three hours at her studio a few weeks ago. Ryann has lived many fascinating lives. She is incredibly wise, special, mystical, and has sage insight around so many topics, so I’m breaking this up into a few episodes. In this first part, we talk about: power dynamics in the hair world; her mystical thoughts on finding love; on becoming what she calls a “baby elder woman” and how she loves sharing what she’s learned. Next week in part two we cover: how she got scouted to model at age 19; how she found hairdressing; hair trends like big hair in the 80s; frequently asked questions about hair trends, health, and growth. Topics:-softening within work-healing from hair shame-power dynamics in the hair world-importance of communication between hair stylist and client-positive lessons she got from her years of being a model-single women in society: the term “chronically single”-opening up to dating after being single-finding love: her mystical thoughts on meeting and falling in love-becoming what she calls a “baby elder woman” and the importance of helping each other move through transitions like moving, finding a home, and improving self care / worth Show Notes:- **My one-on-one CREATIVE CLINIC is open with a few spots left! Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit!**- This episode is sponsored by Brooklinen: get $20 off plus free shipping on orders of $100+ with code letitout- Find Ryann on the Web | Instagram- Subscribe to our newsletter to get show notes + essays, etc. sent to your inbox- I made a shop for my recs! It includes shelves for skin care recs, shoes, body, hair care, + more...if you have any questions let me know! - For book recs, shop my Amazon bookshelf- Check out the Let It Out Kits: self-study workshops for personal growth - Follow @letitouttt on Instagram. I'm @katiedalebout

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Feb 11, 2023 • 1h 45min
So What Do You Do? with Mary Jelkovsky on Evolving Ambition, Body Image, Niches & Creative Output
This week I spoke with author Mary Jelkovsky. Mary asked me on her podcast a couple months ago and when we recorded that interview we recorded one for Let It Out too. In the first half of this episode, Mary and I talk about how our difference in age impacts how we each use social media and technology, including how at only 16 she became an influencer as a fitness model, which led her to disordered eating, into recovery, and eventually to the work she’s doing now to help women accept their bodies and let go of food and body obsession.She’s written a best-selling book and accompanying journal, and over the past 5 years, she's been featured in TEDx, Teen Vogue, Shape, and Health Magazine. She also hosts the podcast Mary’s Cup of Tea, and the second half of this episode is part of my interview as a guest there. We talk about how orthorexia led me to create a blog that became a podcast about wellness, and how I eventually transitioned it beyond that niche to what it is now. We also cover the mindset (and fears) of a freelancer and within creative projects, the importance of evolution, and tools and resources I’ve found useful. I loved meeting her and these conversations, and hope to have many more—let us know if you listen. Show Notes:- **My one-on-one CREATIVE CLINIC is open with a few spots left! Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit!**- Find Mary on the Web | Instagram- Listen to Mary's podcast & my episode on it- Mary's books: The Gift of Self Love & accompanying guided journal- Subscribe to our newsletter to get show notes + essays, etc. sent to your inbox- I made a shop for my recs! It includes shelves for skin care recs, shoes, body, hair care, + more...if you have any questions let me know! - Follow @letitouttt on Instagram. I'm @katiedalebout

Feb 3, 2023 • 1h 45min
Anjie Cho Moves My Furniture & Makes It All Better
In lieu of an interview, this episode is a recording of a session I had with interior designer, architect, author, and feng shui consultant, Anjie Cho. Recorded in person at my apartment, Anjie gives me a typical feng shui and design consultation as if I were a new client.Sessions always start with the question: what are your three wishes for your life? The wishes become a jumping-off point to find interior adjustments in the nine different home areas, which in my case were mostly related to increasing my assertiveness, connection, defined relationships, and creativity.You’ll hear what a session is like as well get some general interior insights from her you can use, but most of all you’ll hear a loose (too?) personal conversation between two old friends. Through answering her consult questions, I end up telling her everything that’s up in the air in my little weird life from dating to money…which I almost cut out but left it all in and hope at least one of you finds it entertaining. But mostly for context for the gentle, sweet, and spot-on advice she gives like only a friend who has known you for 10 years can. Then we move all of my furniture which honestly made me feel way better.This is Anjie’s 4th appearance on this podcast—since 2014 she’s advised me on each apartments I’ve lived in two in Michigan, two in New York, and now this one in LA. We tell how we met through our dear @stiggly and she tells how she got into design through her love of art and portrait photography. Since 1999, she has been designing spaces informed by the ancient practice of feng shui and tailored to each individual’s needs, which you’ll get a taste of in this. She’s been featured everywhere from the New York Times to Domino Magazine; she’s a New York State registered architect, co-founder of the Mindful Design Feng Shui School, and author of the book Holistic Spaces and the forthcoming Mindful Homes, which we should all preorder a hard copy of, it is useful.Let us know if you listened to this… AND if you have any interior design or feng shui questions about your space, leave them here and Anjie will be taking over this account soon to answer in the comments of this post on Instagram and Anjie and I will answer if we can! : )