
Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Latest episodes

Dec 27, 2023 • 43min
EP6: How to date yourself and be happy doing it | the ultimate guide to solo dating and romanticising your life
Exploring the journey of transitioning from seeking validation to building a strong relationship with oneself through solo dating. Prioritizing oneself and solo dating to understand one's own needs, desires, and values. Building self-love through discipline and embracing discomfort. Embracing solo dating and reframing the mindset around loneliness and singlehood. Finding joy and self-care in time alone. Tips for safe and enjoyable solo dating, including bringing a book and planning the itinerary beforehand.

Dec 20, 2023 • 36min
EP5: Dilemma Q&A - confidence, friendships, dating & life goals
Topics discussed include self-worth, self-perception, and confidence; the difference between self-love and narcissism; the importance of self-love and growth; overcoming FOMO; the impact of cheating on self-worth; navigating dating and overcoming attachment styles.

Dec 13, 2023 • 29min
EP4: Do you REALLY need to love yourself first? | self love while dating
Exploring the significance of self-love, maintaining independence in relationships, the importance of self-love before dating, building a solid foundation of self-love for healthy dating, and the lifelong commitment to self-love.

Dec 6, 2023 • 26min
EP3: Signs you’re in your masculine energy + how to tap into your divine feminine energy to reclaim your power
Exploring the concept of feminine energy and its relation to masculine energy. Embracing self-compassion and avoiding self-judgment. Trusting intuition when forming relationships. Tapping into feminine energy through joyful activities and setting boundaries. Honoring oneself and not giving power away to others.

Nov 29, 2023 • 31min
EP 2: How to reframe your mindset and transform your dating experiences
Explore the importance of self-love in dating and the need to set high standards. Learn how to confront toxic behavior, master detachment, and prioritize self-care. Recognize your own value and set boundaries to avoid settling for less. Embrace self-discovery for fulfilling relationships by letting go of societal expectations and focusing on personal growth.

Nov 22, 2023 • 33min
EP1: My self-love story: An intimate look into my life and how I got to where I am in my growth journey today
The speaker discusses their journey towards self-love, exploring issues of fitting in, social anxiety, and the impact on self-esteem and relationships. They reflect on past relationships and highlight the importance of self-care and prioritizing oneself. Reflections on personal growth and the challenges of seeking validation from others. The speaker explores the concept of self-abandonment and the power of self-love. They discuss embracing self-love, overcoming self-doubt, and the journey of building confidence.

Nov 22, 2023 • 1min
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Nov 21, 2023 • 1min
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Nov 15, 2023 • 18min
how to overcome loneliness | causes, myths and REAL solutions
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Nov 15, 2023 • 26min
how to deal with HATERS | stop caring about what other people think and become MORE confident
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur
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