
Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Latest episodes

Mar 6, 2024 • 36min
HOW TO BE THE PERFECT STUDENT | study strategy, consistency tips & mindset shifts to get straight As
Exploring study strategies to transition from a C to straight A student, including active recall and spaced repetition. Tips on overcoming procrastination with digital tools like PaperLike. Importance of discipline, routine, and personalized study schedules for academic success.

Feb 28, 2024 • 35min
how to deal with friend breakups | detachment, friendship standards, moving on
Full video: https://youtu.be/iewn9O0pSgc

Feb 21, 2024 • 28min
HOW TO MASTER SOCIAL CONFIDENCE | talk to anyone, develop extroverted traits and become magnetic!
Full video: https://youtu.be/EptPeU9mqAA

Feb 14, 2024 • 18min
how to EXIT YOUR LAZY GIRL ERA | productivity hacks, discipline secrets & mindset LEVEL UP
Full video: https://youtu.be/k4t4TZq94UU

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Feb 7, 2024 • 30min
15 DATING RULES THAT CHANGED MY LIFE
Exploring essential dating lessons, setting standards, testing potential partners, valuing genuine connections, kindness, true love vs infatuation, self-worth, setting boundaries, trusting intuition, attachment styles, personal growth, compatibility

11 snips
Jan 31, 2024 • 38min
HOW TO BE A B*TCH | take your power back, become magnetic & stop being a people pleaser
FULL VIDEO: https://youtu.be/-GYYhkjm6mY

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Jan 24, 2024 • 48min
EP10: How to be Self Obsessed

Jan 17, 2024 • 42min
EP9: How to build your dream life and always be in control
Learn how to focus on creating your dream life and be in control. Understand yourself for personal development by identifying strengths and weaknesses. Surround yourself with cooler people to fuel your dreams and break free from limitations. Plan and self-evaluate to build your dream life. Reprogram beliefs and overcome self-sabotage. Embrace failure and acquire skills for success.

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Jan 10, 2024 • 29min
EP8: Using stoicism to become the most confident version of yourself | stoic mindset shifts to level up your life
Discover the principles of stoicism and how it can improve confidence; Gain confidence by facing challenges and stepping out of your comfort zone; Explore stoic values and their impact on mindset and confidence; Learn how taking control of actions and challenging limiting beliefs can build confidence

Jan 3, 2024 • 30min
EP7: Mastering self-perception | understanding the influences, effects on your life and how to change it for the better
Exploring self-perception's impact on confidence, overcoming self-doubt, transforming self-perception through journaling, and using scripting to align actions with a higher self script.
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