
Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Latest episodes

8 snips
Aug 14, 2024 • 35min
S3 EP5: Dilemma Q&A | consistency, detachment, self-growth, friendships & more
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
LISTEN TO THE POD ON APPLE AND SPOTIFY HERE: https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed
ORDER MY BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur

9 snips
Aug 7, 2024 • 28min
S3 EP4: How to fall in love with your failures | mindset shifts and turning fails into wins
Discover how embracing failure can transform your life! The discussion highlights the power of resilience and the importance of viewing setbacks as stepping stones to success. Personal anecdotes illustrate how vulnerability can create connections and empower growth. Learn about maintaining a failure journal and adopting a 'not yet' mindset to turn challenges into opportunities. Tune in for practical advice that encourages a positive outlook on your journey! Embrace your failures and unlock your potential.

7 snips
Jul 31, 2024 • 31min
S3 EP3: Building an extraordinary life is about being an extraordinary person
Dive into the pursuit of an exceptional life that breaks free from societal norms. Discover the crucial mindset shifts needed to join the top achievers. Explore how redefining success leads to true happiness through personal growth. Learn to transform everyday habits into extraordinary practices that boost productivity. Ultimately, align your daily actions with your grand life ambitions through intentional choices and self-reflection. This enlightening discussion reshapes how we think about success and fulfillment.

22 snips
Jul 24, 2024 • 29min
S3 EP2: why you shouldn’t be friends with everyone | small circles, alone time & spiritual hygiene advice
PODCAST INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS: https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur
BUSINESS ENQUIRIES: tamkaur@sixteenth.co

4 snips
Jul 17, 2024 • 20min
S3 EP1: how to maintain independence and self-growth in a relationship [ft tam and her boyf]
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur

25 snips
May 29, 2024 • 39min
S2 EP10: the 10 laws of self obsession | how to be self obsessed
THE SEASON FINALE.
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Buy-Yourself-Damn-Flowers-Kaur/dp/178512174X
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur

May 22, 2024 • 27min
S2 EP9: how to trust yourself & be confident in your decision making
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Buy-Yourself-Damn-Flowers-Kaur/dp/178512174X
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur

41 snips
May 15, 2024 • 46min
S2 EP8: building money confidence, financial independence + investing tips [simran kaur - girls that invest]
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Buy-Yourself-Damn-Flowers-Kaur/dp/178512174X
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur
GUEST: SIMRAN KAUR
https://girlsthatinvest.com/
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Girls-That-Invest-Financial-Independence/dp/111989378X
https://www.instagram.com/girlsthatinvest/?hl=en

7 snips
May 8, 2024 • 27min
S2 EP7: how to reframe adversity to work in your favour + signs you're growing for the better
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Buy-Yourself-Damn-Flowers-Kaur/dp/178512174X
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur

4 snips
May 1, 2024 • 39min
S2 EP6: listen to this if you aren’t sure what you want to do in life | why you feel lost and how to find your path. [Jemma Sbeg]
PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Buy-Yourself-Damn-Flowers-Kaur/dp/178512174X
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
KEEP UP W THE POD: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur
JEMMA'S LINKS: linktr.ee/thepsychologyofyour20s