
Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Latest episodes

Nov 29, 2023 • 31min
EP 2: How to reframe your mindset and transform your dating experiences
Explore the importance of self-love in dating and the need to set high standards. Learn how to confront toxic behavior, master detachment, and prioritize self-care. Recognize your own value and set boundaries to avoid settling for less. Embrace self-discovery for fulfilling relationships by letting go of societal expectations and focusing on personal growth.

Nov 22, 2023 • 33min
EP1: My self-love story: An intimate look into my life and how I got to where I am in my growth journey today
The speaker discusses their journey towards self-love, exploring issues of fitting in, social anxiety, and the impact on self-esteem and relationships. They reflect on past relationships and highlight the importance of self-care and prioritizing oneself. Reflections on personal growth and the challenges of seeking validation from others. The speaker explores the concept of self-abandonment and the power of self-love. They discuss embracing self-love, overcoming self-doubt, and the journey of building confidence.

Nov 22, 2023 • 1min
Podcast Trailer
Launching 22nd Nov 2023 6PM GMT.

Nov 21, 2023 • 1min
Podcast Trailer
Launching Wednesday 22nd November 2023. 6pm GMT.

Nov 15, 2023 • 26min
how to deal with HATERS | stop caring about what other people think and become MORE confident
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Nov 15, 2023 • 28min
HOW TO END 2023 SUCCESSFULLY | end of year reset, 2024 goal plan and new habits
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Nov 15, 2023 • 18min
how to overcome loneliness | causes, myths and REAL solutions
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Oct 23, 2023 • 10min
listen to this for motivation.
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Oct 14, 2023 • 31min
how to deal with your toxic family | understanding signs, regaining power, new mindset + solutions
https://youtu.be/fFJz19KifsM
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Oct 13, 2023 • 19min
how to find your passion | REAL strategies, building the RIGHT mindset and what NOT to do
Explore strategies for finding your passion, including self-analysis and exploration. Align goals with idols, step out of your comfort zone, and develop correct habits. Learn how starting a jewelry business and embracing entrepreneurship can fuel your passion. Discover three powerful habits for uncovering your passion: expand knowledge, leverage social media, and embrace creativity.